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Yeah i understand but imo why even bother? There's always going to be the elephant in the room with exes. It's not easy to pretend to be friends with someone. Life is hard as it is.

I didn't clarify. If he is to talk to her then by all means let her reach out. He is the prize after all. All I'm saying is if she does, its ok to talk about it.

Yep i second this bro. I bloody fell for it and all that happened was that i suffered for it. There is absolutely no benefit in being friends with an ex girlfriend.

@Back in the game i think @Barrister has hit the nail on the head about Valentines Day. Her feelings for you have taken a dive after that. You've got to remember they say one thing but what they are thinking is another story. Hard to proceed from here. You really need to work out what you...

Not sure dressing modestly would make a difference for her. She's not the cutest girl going around....

Thankyou you helped me out immensely! My ex was cold, couldn't look me in the eye and had a lot of hurt in her eyes when she did look up. Also explains why she never mentioned to catch up but always agreed when i mentioned it. Thanks for confirming my thoughts.

I know where you are coming from but its still not a good idea. I was in a bad headspace when i was with my ex. I had my own issues going on, although so did she but at least i acknowledged it and worked on them instead of jumping into another relationship quickly like she did. I turned my...

I know its easy for me to say this but i've been there. It's best to cut your losses and keep doing what you are doing. I still think of my ex occasionally but there is no chance id pick up the phone. If she contacts you then deal with it then. Look for someone new, a fresh start.

Social media is the main cause of depression. It's why so many women are depressed and miserable because they are addicted to their phone and social media. I deleted my accounts about 2 months ago. Awesome feeling. I still use OLD to spin plates, nothing serious and its how it should be treated.

I'm from Melbourne and i too can confirm this. It's basically as others have said, they have too many options. The half decent girls and upwards inboxes get absolutely flooded and you have to be in the top 2 percent to even get a response. I matched with two stunners on tinder last night...

I love it when they match with me, shoot me a message only for me to hop on have a look and they have already disappeared! Why match with me in the first place ladies?

I actually DGAF about what women think or what women want. Or if they care about me or not. I've lived long enough to know that apart from your parents, no one GAF about you. Especially not a woman. We all know they just want our resources and as soon as it stops they're onto the next bloke...

I think it depends on the chick and the circumstances. There's no right or wrong answer. You have to be able to work out what works for each one. And work it out quickly. But then you have others that can't take a joke or anything. Next.

It was bro. It's been very hard re wiring my brain and a lot to get over and process. But I'm on the other side now. Cutting the latest ex out of my life was an important step.

I've set the ground rules from the start with my girl. Not living together, and we see each other 3 to 4 times a week. When she does pop in its only usually for half an hour. I've told her that some weekends I'll be doing stuff with my mates etc. She's cool with that. Sometimes she's got...

Ok I'm about to step into this game i think. Being seeing a chick for about 5 months or so now. But i live alone and she lives alone about 10 minutes away. I just want to start exploring other women having been in a miserable LTR a while back. I have always been dead set against cheating but...

She willingly gave it to me and I loved it at the time. And i love it 20 years down the track. In fact I'm quite proud of it. That's how you should look at it too. As others have said in here, worry about yourself, improve yourself and don't worry about theses broads too much. Get yourself...

Oh he has got decent resources. In my case she has no house, no car and no money. She moved in quickly with him just like she did with me. She even drove his car to come and see me last year! This guy would be on her level or even worse and worse still, he doesn't give a sh1t about her. She...

Even though they are immature and insecure, they are also users. They usually do not have any resources to call their own. Therefore they sucker men in to giving them a place to stay etc. Usually, they drain the life out of you if you're not careful. Guys, be wary of red flags and do not...

She will forever know it for one reason only. That i managed to show her in person and while we were in contact that i changed and became a better person. Basically Max 2.0. She realized she jumped into another relationship too quickly because she never thought in a million years I'd change...