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There is a young lady I know who I met through a friend. We went on a coffee date in February, which went ok but nothing ever came of it in terms of a follow up. Basically, it was the "I'm too busy" excuse. I'll spare you the story but there's a thread I made back then describing the situation...

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Yeah, I think I will text her back for now just saying something like, It's cool - do what you gotta do. I'm leaving town this weekend and will be gone for the next week anyway, so there's no point in trying to set anything up with her now.

Update: I left it alone and didn't bother calling or texting her after that time last weekend. Then she texts me tonight, saying: "Hey, I tried to call you a couple of times this weekend, but your phone went right to voicemail. I really just wanted to apologize for acting like a jerk. I'm...

Nah I think you guys have me wrong. I'm not putting her on a pedestal - it's not like I am giving up on getting with other girls so long as she's in my sights. I'm also not looking for another relationship right now - just someone to hang out/fool around with for a bit, as a distraction. I also...

What would be the most opportune time to get in touch with her again? Say in a week, two weeks, a month? Sometime sooner so she doesn't forget entirely or let some time pass so as not to seem desperate? And what to say when calling?

I know there are plenty of reasons for not thinking this way but I'm feeling pretty down on myself for blowing this one. I was pretty good at our first interactions at the bar and solid at our coffee date. Then this weird week of phone tag and texting began. I need to get my mind off of this one...

Well I tried. I texted her back essentially saying that it's too bad because I was hoping to see her again one of these days. No response a day later. Flake. Sometimes I feel like women aren't worth the effort of figuring out.

So there's a girl who I met last fall in one of my classes. We never really talked much in class. But on the occasions we did, I noticed that a couple of times she would offer me compliments. For example, one time she said I would make an intimidating 1st year student (grad school, not college)...

I didn't think of it that way at first. Just seemed to me she was apologizing for being hard to reach before. After all, she could have just not bothered to respond or return my call if she wasn't interested. Can't it be that she's saying this as a way of showing she's still interested in being...

Ok she finally texted me back today: "Difficult to reach is a pretty generous assessment of my communication skills. I'm really sorry, I'm kind of in recluse mode at the moment" How to understand this?

Would it look desperate if I called her tonight?

Ok so new question: I called her yesterday to follow up on our date. She didn't pick up and I left a message saying that I'm calling just to say hi and see how she is. I was calling to ask her out for dinner but I didn't want to do that in a voice mail. She called me back about an hour later...

I'm thinking of calling or texting her to ask if she wants to get lunch tomorrow. I'm lacking interesting second day ideas right now.

actually I was the opposite of needy throughout our relationship. She would complain that I didn't make her feel wanted, that I was always too distant and emotionally detached, and that she sometimes doubted how much I loved her. the neediness at the end was me spilling out everything I had...

Before I left, I told her I would leave her alone and give her space, until I would be in town again in March, so that maybe we could get together then and see where we could go. She said that maybe, she would see. But last month, right when I came back here, I had practically a nervous...

In the other thread I mentioned that I would eventually tell the story of my 6 year relationship. Here it is, for those who care to know. Let me first say that the story I give here will be a basic sketch. I'm sure you've all been in love and understand how hard it is to capture in words all...

No contact? I always thought 1-2 days is enough time to get in touch with her again. Also, Facebook friending, y/n?