First date tomorrow in 6 yrs

[kim jong chill]

Update:

I left it alone and didn't bother calling or texting her after that time last weekend. Then she texts me tonight, saying:

"Hey, I tried to call you a couple of times this weekend, but your phone went right to voicemail. I really just wanted to apologize for acting like a jerk. I'm basically tabling my social life until I get through my translation exam."

I'm not sure if she's telling the truth or not about trying to call me. My phone does have a tendency to send people straight to voicemail sometimes and not show me the calls; but she didn't leave any message. Also, she did tell me that she was preparing for this exam during our date.

So, should I ignore it or text her back? If I do text, I don't want to look like I'm too available for whenever she has time. And I don't get why she would even do this now, more than a week later.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Ignore it.. She just sent you that for her own egotistical purposes. Just leave it at that.

 

[HappyHarryHardon]

Same thing happened with a girl I was seeing. Same thing. I wanted to do something but she had to study and cancelled so I didn't contact her for a whole week. She called one day and wanted to catch up. Maybe that's why she was calling you.. to offer another date. People don't usually leave voice messages.. I don't. So it's possible she really is busy and maybe still wants to keep you around. I wouldn't remove her from your life just yet. Try give her a call back since she called you. If she answers tell her you're going out on the weekend to some place or whatever and if she would like to join you. I dunno, think up something. But try her one more time. If she bails again leave her alone until she's done with exams and contacts you again.

 

[kim jong chill]

Yeah, I think I will text her back for now just saying something like, It's cool - do what you gotta do. I'm leaving town this weekend and will be gone for the next week anyway, so there's no point in trying to set anything up with her now.

 

[kim jong chill]

sorry multi-post

 

[kim jong chill]

sorry multi-post

 

[kim jong chill]

sorry multi-post