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You might be inviting a hookup with a DJ wannabe, a RAFC, an AFC, a guy with no looks, no style, no game, no intelligence. Someone who wants to get in your way and feed off your game. Basically, someone who will do your game more harm than good. You might also be hooking up with the suavest...

I'm not defending the site, and trying to divert blame elsewhere! All I'm saying is that deducing a reason (any reason) for lack of success with women, is only a self fulfilling prophecy. An excuse for lack of action removes motivation. This is entirely true. I have had successes in the past...

Dear Mr Tiburon, OK, I can see maybe I was hasty in my evaluation of your comments. I just took exception to being called disgusting. I appreaciate your response, apologies for the "compliments" :) Contrary to what you have said, it actually never occured to me that she might be a slut...

From what I can see you have constructed a new excuse for yourself to not approach women... You only feel that way because you haven't been putting your knowledge into practise. You are one of the most intelligent DJs on this site. Just think how good you will be with everything you know...

Starman, you're right, but the locus still holds true. Internal locus, and rightfully so. You are responsible for this event. It is in your control. External locus, again justified by your common sense. Those million reasons were OUTSIDE your control.

Well I definetely don't envy that part of your culture guys. Over here it's pretty damn rare for bar staff to get tipped, unless they do something pretty special to earn it. When I used to work in the bar at a holiday camp, you'd only get tips of rich folks if you make them laugh, or hot...

Sounds like you're talking about the "Locus of Control" described in the Quick Tips section

Posted this on another thread, but it seems more relevant here. I think guys are like women. We THINK we want one thing but actually want something else. Sure, we want sex - on the surface. We're impatient. We want it NOW. We want it YESTERDAY. But it's the seduction that keeps the sex...

I think guys are like women. We THINK we want one thing but actually want something else. Sure, we want sex - on the surface. We're impatient. We want it NOW. We want it YESTERDAY. But it's the seduction that keeps the sex interesting. Sure if you start to lose hope you start to lose...

Dude, it was so obvious. You should've made her a life-size Miss Piggy instead.

The only way to get better at dancing is to dance. And dance. And dance and dance and DANCE! If you see a guy who is doing the most impressive moves on the dancefloor the chances are he's been doing it for years. But on the other hand, he looks like a showoff ;) As long as you are...

When you found her phone number, was it in on the end of a bar behind the fishtank?

This really is a bit of an anti-newbie thread! You don't need to read women. That doesn't work remember? Just remember that she is one of many. Don't give a ****. If she calls you be c/f. BE SEXY. If she likes you she will call you even if she's been flaky. If she doesn't then lack of...

Then how do you GET perfect? I've had some AMAZING BJs but then I've had some fvcking sh!t ones too. Girls need to get their TEETH out of the way... Like, shielding them with her lips. I saw a TV program where girls were practising on an unpeeled banana. If there were teethmarks it's back...

What's wrong with saying "my friends are around somewhere.."? Or even better, what I usually do, meet some guys when you arrive and just say you're with them.

Interesting point.

I don't mind, so long as they use protection, and always come back to me :D Yes, I've been there. Jealousy isn't a problem for me.

There is more than one definition for the work equal. I didn't mean that one is better than the other, all I was trying to state is that men ARE different from women. Fact. But good for calling me on my choice of words, maybe not the best.

Perhaps partly feminists, but not entirely. Guys are part of society too. It only seems accountable to feminism because guys were originally so sexist. Feminism has played a big role in the breakdown of male sexism (which is a primitive attitude). What you are saying is that for a guy to...

Where did it come from?