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No, this thread should be a warning of the issues of approaching in a gym environment and how to spot the signs of attention whoring from creepy inconsiderate women there with poor social skills.

So, I meant ask for her number. Jesus christ how do you guys not get it? She didn't have a boyfriend and was looking for another orbiter to milk for attention lol. As for the interactions. It included her going out of her way to say hi and bye to me but also approaching me and having actual...

Creepy stalker? No bro, this woman was going out of her way to approach me, interact with me, flirt, etc. For instance, when after I said "Ok, well it was nice to meet you" I went back to what I was doing, which was stretching. She then proceeds to leave and walks by me, waves and says "byeee"...

I've had several gym approaches and literally none of them amounted to anything and all but 1 actually turned out to be terrible experiences for me. The one that was not a bad experience was a brief interaction that didn't play out that well and I immediately ejected myself, this in 2017. This...

Bro.......wtf are you talking about? This woman did NOT have a boyfriend and was interested in using me for validation and attention. Do you not understand what attention whoring is? Have you never experienced it?

Have you ever actually been to the gym, approached women there or seen what they are like? Over the last decade, particular the last 5 years, I've seen the gym become a place where women constantly take thirst trap selfies, dress like it is a strip club, flirt with tons of men, etc. It's the...

Bro, do you not understand that this woman was going out of her way to approach me, interact with me, flirt, etc.? I've repeated this multiple times, wtf do you think attention whoring is? A woman should not be approaching a man she rejected like that and leading him on. Are you trolling right...

And I was a stand up guy, I said "nice to meet you" after being rejected and she went out of her way to troll lol. I wasn't really trying to rationalize her behavior but what you said here was kind of where my line of thought was going at the time. I was just honestly confused by her behavior...

Bro, did you not read the fing original post? This is from 2018 lol. This is a horrible case of attention whoring and this creepy w h o r e created a terrible situation for both herself and a male stranger for NO reason. I walked away and she felt the need to keep flirting in order to milk as...

Bro, are you missing this or what? This woman was behaving this was with a man that had an interaction with her for just a few minutes, basically a stranger. We were not coworkers, classmates, etc. That is not normal behavior for a woman to go OUT of her way to flirt and engage with a man she...

Huh? This is most certainly attention whoring, wtf are you talking about. The a.w went OUT of her way to flirt and engage with a man she already rejected, that is not normal or acceptable behavior.

Side note, this particular story is from a while ago and I was a bit different back then. If something similar were to happen now at the gym, where I leave after getting rejected and she starts flirting later on, I'd handle it completely differently. If I was getting a vibe like this particular...

She was just an attention *****, albeit a very extreme one. She probably had no real interest and was just looking for another orbiter that she could milk for attention. As for ignoring her, I definitely agree with this part but the issue was that she was going OUT of her way to interact with...

A couple weeks ago something popped up that reminded me of a woman I had unfortunately crossed paths with. I had a conversation with @SW15 about this particular woman. When we talk about creepy behavior from men it's often from a place where the man is socially mis calibrated in some way...

Ok, so are you blaming exposure to plastics and PFAs as the cause of this? The plain reality is that over the last several decades the average American has been getting increasingly more and more overweight. If you think plastics are to blame for this you really are missing the obvious trend...

They aren't going to have good data on this from that far back. Something else to consider is that the men that are having their T levels tested are probably going in to see a doctor because something feels off to them, meaning they may not represent the average adult man. It's not really all...

@user252009 Following someone on social media doesn't really mean anything but I'd find it strange if she was doing this AFTER rejecting you. Disregarding the social media thing though, I have experienced some similar to this with women after them rejecting me. Over a span of a couple years...

Here's my input on this. The biggest issue with rent today is that the prices are comparable to a mortgage AND are subject to change. It's not unusual to see rent prices at 1k+ for some apartment complex that isn't even all that great either. A ton of places will label themselves as "luxury...

This is a really good point lol. The reality is that he was still ultimately a stranger, no normal woman is going to seriously devote a ton of time into meeting up. She probably enjoyed the initial random interaction and agreed to swap contact information. However, over time she loses interest...

I honestly wouldn't worry too much about this one particular woman and why things didn't pan out for you the way you were originally hoping for. What you are discussing here is the normal experience for the vast majority of men out there today. People are quick to blame the man but I personally...