I met my girlfriend from cold approach - she thought my approach was confident and gutsy and enjoyed my company . What bs - even attractive men need daygame and cold approach skills to increase their options. Saying cold approach ruins attraction is overgeneralised statement- for some it can...
https://mindful-masculinity.org/2023/11/06/do-men-really-have-more-time-than-women-in-the-sexual-market-place/ wrote a blog piece a while ago… I think the answer is it depends how proactive a man will be in creating options for themselves - how well men can maintain their smv and whether or not...
you need options in order to find one that's aligned with your values and interests- approaching is a numbers game and it takes time for men but that's the way it is- it's hard to "fast track" all aspects of dating sometimes its just grit and numbers that makes the difference.
exactly, the alternative is what exactly? Women are never going to come for me- its a man's job to pursue and lead . I met my girlfriend after 500 approaches/ a lot of iffy dates and bad break ups but the experiences moulded me well if I hadn't gone through all the pain id just be single and...
I love cold approaching women, it taught me a lot of brutal lessons about human psychology and the importance of a strong work ethic and persistence. I also met my girlfriend of two years now from cold approach so Im immensely happy to have taken part in doing it
Full Article and Analysis Please read as the majority of the points are discussed here : https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/01/21/13-crucial-errors-in-daygame-and-dating-and-how-to-avoid-them/
Delaying finding good wingmen:
Playing “Too hard to get” or trying to copy “players” and “chads” ...
I was lower than my friends who were in London around 1in 30-40 but they were better looking than me so it makes sense . Of course it varies from person to person I met one guy who managed 1 in 20 which was extremely impressive but he was pretty ripped and had excellent conversation skills and...
Statistically being western will give you an advantage over 100-200 sets and interactions . Of course from girl to girl this still varies some won’t care at all.
advantages in countries help but there are always women in developing countries that don’t give a rats ass and that’s fine
definitely I spoke to a few dating coaches in London and they say their results went down post tinder invention - I guess online dating created a permanent change in sexual dynamics for life but the desperation in me caused me to change and put myself out there more so I guess it the scarcity...
I just realised OLD is online dating ha
yeah I definitely have female with this approach , some of them don't like being commoditised online which is understandable. My Cousin is a model in Dubai though and she gets a lot of free **** all the time even got a private jet ride one time from her...
London is full of high value men by comparison alot of men in China can't even afford to go on a coffee date - the difference is night and day add in the fact that Chinese men are traditionally pretty shy, introverted and have confidence issues and it defiantly helps things a lot. There are a...
1 in roughly 15-20 for a date, my lay was roughly 1 in 76 approaches. London Daygame coach tom torero claimed 1 lay every 35 approaches. Roughly every 3-4 women I dated would end up in one lay of course you get swathes of variance of very lucky and unlucky periods. What you mean by OLD?
yeah 3 of my Aunts live in Plano so pretty much most of my time on my 5 visits to Dallas have been in the Suburb areas - 2012 and 2014 I stayed in Allen then my Aunt sold her place there and bought a place in Plano - I used tinder there aged 21 and got a lot of matches from 18-19 year olds a...
I go to Dallas once a year to visit my aunts - 2012 I did some daygame on university of Texas campus but I was a rookie back then and nothing amount to it although some interactions went well I think it was mainly for my English accent rather than anything else - seeing as I live in my aunt's...
well my girlfriend never used online dating because she was scared of meeting people online that shed never met in person however most of my female friends in London use online game a lot even the unattractive ones can usher in a good 10-20 x my attractive male friend's matches. I just think...
no never been to Canada. Most of my mum's side lives in Dallas,Texas or Calfornia. My mum is a real estate investor in San Fransisco but I was born and raised in London-UK .
China is a fantastic spot for daygame as long as you target the major cities - small cities languages can be a barrier...
yeah the rejections hurt for the first year or two then after a while you get used to it once some positive feedback comes and helps . Of course for most men even high value men cold approach will be 80-90 percent rejection which will be filled with unpleasant dates and lmr. Heck I know of...
statistically though the majority of Puas will fail , heck for me I had 6 month drought before my first reasonable results, its tough adapting and being social and outgoing consistently is not for the fainthearted I know people who did well from cold approach but gave up because they couldn't...
would say I agree with this , my brothers were both successful millionaires living in London they both struggled their whole dating lives mainly because they just simply didn't approach or put themselves out there. Sometimes just consistent approaching and having a good team of wingmen around...
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