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  1. Lotus Effect

    How do I let go, or should I even?

    Though spot. I can very much relate. My high school platonic crush showed up in my life last year. It was already a healed wound. But then We had a fling (23 years later). I thought ‘now is the time. Now she’ll be mine’. I moved continents because of her, from Brazil to Portugal. When I...
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    The body language of social media: ways women behave to categorize men using social apps

    Bro. You don’t know what a DHV is, and you keep posting shlt after shlt. You should stop posting BS to get a ‘master dj’ level, which actually means nothing… …And go study the fundamentals. It is getting annoying
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    Is it safe to guess that you have never surfed, right? (Same applies to dirt biking, and street skateboarding)
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    I knew it! Ha!
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    Very few will get this reference
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    Ran into my ex I posted threads about with her new bf - Prove I am right

    You do man. It is okay to say it. You will do, until you don't. But it takes waaaaaaaaay longer than a month or two. Clara took me 3 years. Adriana took me pretty much a lifetime. And, when I was really over, some 10 years later (read it again, ten), she showed up out of the blue and we had...
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    Apparently not
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    If you are into knitting then yeah. But again, let's be fvking practical. Dude comes here, trying to get a glimpse on new hobbies, to see if some sh)t presented to him matches his style. Just present the guy with possibilities, based on facts, instead o MGTOWING or giving some philosofical...
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    ¬¬ ... Just give the man an answer
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    Ran into my ex I posted threads about with her new bf - Prove I am right

    Rule 3: Judge by actions, not by words. Pay attention to what Gambino is doing, not what he is saying. @BPH already answred your question.
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    Ran into my ex I posted threads about with her new bf - Prove I am right

    You are yet to see the light, but still, no cigar my man. If you 'claim to be a wise man, surely means that you don't know' Hate to break it down to you mate, but you do. The guys said it already, your post is delusional, and FULL of assumptions. Let's recall that she DOES NOT GIVE A FLYING...
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    Hobbies as DHVs

    Action stuff: Rock climbing Surfing Skateboarding Motorbikes ... When in doubt, think red bull On the other hand, some DLVs are Videogames Chess Collecting RPGs ... When in doubt, think geek
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    Koko Beaute Has Officially Hit 'The Wall'. She's an Example for All Women About What Can Happen When Riding the Penis Carousel

    Some of them ‘get lucky’ and hit the pregnancy shot! I’ve dated a relentless b!tch for a while that fit all the requirements for koko’s scenario, but since she had a child, and ‘got what she wanted’ she just went full berserk on the carrousel. She’s out there on the wild, leaving a trail of...
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    Let’s talk about S€X

    Thanks bro. About porn and social media. Just quit it man. You don’t need it. You are not a chick so there is no need for online validation that gets you nowhere, and about porn, save your energy for the real deal. If you are in a long dry spell, than try wanking porn free, like once a week...
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    How do you deal with FOMO when going in monk mode?

    When that something you are spending all your time is you, than it most definitely is effective. Specially because working in yourself is not working in one thing. There are multiple aspects to it: Diet Workout Work Sports Home daily tasks/chores Finance … to name a few You are not spending...
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    How do you deal with FOMO when going in monk mode?

    Focus on your journey OP. No one else will do it for you. There is no pursuing them after all. Or as Brazilian poet Mario Quintana said: "The secret is not chasing butterflies... It is taking care of the garden so they will come to you"
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    How do you deal with FOMO when going in monk mode?

    A little bitter, but it is the hard truth! Wish I could double like this post. I wanted to agree with you, but ever since I took the monastic road, my head got clearer to focus on myself alone. Working solely on myself, while cutting all bvllsht and noise from my life, conversely gave me far...
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    What do you do when you know she’s a hoe?

    So don't take her serioulsy and also, have 30 other chicks on the scene yourself.
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    Dating apps and data harvesting

    Nope, you're not. Nope, there aren't. Elaborating: It is the weak man's way out. And it does not pay off. Instead of working on your profile. Work on yourself. I'm bangin' far more chicks now that I'm out of all that - including Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat - than I ever was. All this...
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    Ugly dudes have it made in France

    It's wild the turn that this post has taken
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