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[Salvation]

Great stuff, Thanks! Appreciate you for writing this.
I find myself doing all these things (but trying but failing with porn addiction/social media addiction embarrassingly)

I think the 'use me like a sex object' is a classic that girls like.

I also like to find out more what she likes in talks between sex, i want to find out the details of physicality (eg how she likes her breasts and nipples handled, as well as the exact psychological turn ons - there are eg some different flavors of being dominant, what fantasies does she have when she does it herself, what porn does she watch and what is the sexiest psychological aspect of it for her)

 

[Chow Mein]

You can't go 'ditto'. Now you are competing with him over being 'the best sex any women will ever have, period'.
And there can be only one.
So the two* of you will have to have a c0ck fight.

(*this could become a melee if others start dittoing as well)

Are you offering to be the referee?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Are you offering to be the referee?

Sure, I have a cane.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

But why would I want to not even be able to enjoy it and on top of it inflict intense, long lasting pain on myself ??

To be as cool as an octopus, of course.
But you can't be, because you're not an octopus.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Great stuff, Thanks! Appreciate you for writing this.
I find myself doing all these things (but trying but failing with porn addiction/social media addiction embarrassingly)

I think the 'use me like a sex object' is a classic that girls like.

I also like to find out more what she likes in talks between sex, i want to find out the details of physicality (eg how she likes her breasts and nipples handled, as well as the exact psychological turn ons - there are eg some different flavors of being dominant, what fantasies does she have when she does it herself, what porn does she watch and what is the sexiest psychological aspect of it for her)

Thanks bro.
About porn and social media. Just quit it man.
You don’t need it.

You are not a chick so there is no need for online validation that gets you nowhere, and about porn, save your energy for the real deal. If you are in a long dry spell, than try wanking porn free, like once a week maximum.

And on your approach, i used to be like that, but nowadays that I’m fairly confident about myself in bed, I kinda push my approach into girls.

They don’t actually know what they want.
They just think they know.
I show them what they actually want.
And they always go for it.

I guess is a kind of a Fordism mentality.

If the consumer knew what he wanted, we would be riding chariots with a hundred horses.