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Man, did I learn this the hard way.

Depends more on you, I think. I have no interest in fat girls, so I don't become game when around them and have an easier time with hotties, since they fulfill my desires. If you're hot for fatties, do your thing.

These don't sound like decisions you're thinking through. What do YOU want?

Find something else to do besides sitting alone thinking about her. Go hang out with some buddies, go on a date with someone else... preferably something social.

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Update: F-close. Neither of us ever brought up that night. I think everyone is assuming I was purposefully JUST making her wait and didn't have other options that night (I was busy with another girl, just not as attractive *shrug*). Maybe that's my fault for not explaining the situation well...

B.E.T. - Body language, Eye contact, Tone of voice. What you say matters less than how you say it.

Think you answered your own question. This is why I don't like dinner dates. You typically sit across from each other and it's tougher to kino/escalate.

You proved you had options. What makes you think you killed it?

Uh, yes, I really was busy lol. Woulda smashed otherwise. I don't think I understand what you're saying, though. If I'd asked her to meet me tomorrow, I'm 99% sure her response would have been the same.

The only gifts I give to plates are "joke" gifts - something that represents an inside joke, typically. I've given a coloring book to more than one girl. If you really want to gift her, your time should be your most valuable commodity. If not, don't.

Older women are easier, in my opinion. Could just be how they react to me, though. Treat her the same as any other girl, but you can be playful with the age factor. Push by asking her if she needs help walking somewhere so she doesn't break a hip. Pull by telling her she can't be more than [10...

I've been interested in pursuing this. Does it matter if I have no experience dancing?

Out of the game for a few years, back now, still getting the hang of things. Anyway, I have an 8 showing IOI, and I plan on acting. Last night, I was preoccupied. She texts me saying she wants to come over. We've hung out, we've kissed, but she hasn't been to my place yet. I'm not rearranging...

This ain't Reddit.

I'm less comfortable having a conversation with my family than with a stranger. Might sound weird, but it's true. We tend to generalize women so we have an easier time understanding them, but you're generalizing us here.

That would make it the best rejection.

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Ignore everything she said and look at what she did. Dump her, she's probably cheating.

Because they aren't giving themselves options.