Search results

I understand that, but in my current situation giving up dating apps means giving up trying to meet women entirely

I think I'm starting to come to the conclusion that hoeflation is to blame for my increasingly diminishing returns on dating apps. With this considered, what are some ways in which I can at least counteract the hoeflation phenomenon to a degree?

In Hinduism it's not really what can Hindus do or what can't Hindus do, it's more what would or wouldn't Hindus do. So with seeing escorts it's not what a sincere Hindu would do. By distraction I mean something that pulls you back down into materialism and thus keeps you from achieving the...

So in other words, it's over? I'm not willing to bang escorts or get myself into a sugar daddy type scenario.

There's nothing specific about prostitution in the Bhagavad Gita, but it's understood that sleeping with women like that is a distraction to spiritual progress. It's not just religious objections keeping me from seeing escorts. I really don't like the idea of having sex with someone who's had so...

[ Then how would I cope with being single all my life? Maybe you have a point but I want to know how I would go about curbing my desire for a relationship if that's the case

So I should stop thinking about women and accept being alone? At least that's what I've extrapolated from this comment

One thing I've done so far is that I hang out at a local coffee shop almost every day. Also I might take up jiu jitsu or some other martial art like that

I'm not attracted to asian women tho. If I were that might be a solution but I'm just not

Yeah I should send him a writeup about that

Hmm this is all pretty good. Maybe I'll look more into this Aaron Clarey guy

I'd look worse with short hair and it wouldn't be very rock n roll if I cut it

What about second world nations, like the former warsaw pact countries in Europe? There are some parts of Latin America that might be interesting but I'm really not as familiar with that part of the world, and I've more or less ruled out Asian countries since I typically don't find Asian women...

I do think East Europe makes the most sense in my case. The subsequent questions are: Which country, how long do I stay there, and what do I do to meet women there? Is it more like I'm supposed to move to whatever country or so I just go there for a few weeks? How can I compensate for my lack of...

I don't either. What would make more sense?

That's been my exact point. It's also one thing I'm worried about. The last thing I want is to go to Europe to meet women and still find none. With my luck that's exactly what would happen.

It wouldn't be that difficult for me to learn like polish or czech or something since I have at least an elementary knowledge of Russian already. I do indeed speak German fluently so in the German-speaking world I'd be fine in that regard. Even though Germany is still a western nation it's still...

For now I do have a good hairline and I'm taking precautions to avoid losing my hair, my diet is good, and my fat loss phase is going according to plan. One irony about my situation is that without a doubt I'm currently more attractive than I've ever been in my entire life, yet I can't even get...

This is all good advice, but I can't imagine it's a good thing to put off women for too long. What if I wait too long and I lose my looks and my hair starts falling out? Then it would be too late. I've already reached the age where meeting women and getting dates is much much harder.

A huge problem I have is that I've never been able to bring myself to approach no matter where I am. In order to approach over there I need to find a way to remedy that. Are you saying that approaching in Europe is more forgiving? Would the women be more likely to want to talk to me?