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I moved out of NYC during the pandemic and how the city handled it but I always swore that I would move back. Part of it is because I know that I vastly underperformed with game there. I barely did any cold approach and relied solely on the apps. I hate tons of dates that I let go to waste...

There is definitely a certain vibe to Florida. I mean there are aspects of Miami I love but the rest of Florida, not sure I could stomach it. It seems like that try hard So Cal mixed in with that Southern trailer park vibe. I always got a sketchy feeling from Florida girls that are not from...

There is a saying that New York women have careers, Miami women have gigs. I agree with this completely. Most of the girls here do not have legitimate careers. They are Sugar Babies, OnlyFan girls, or bartenders/****tail waitresses. However, having a friend in the industry, he tells me that a...

Manhattan or bust my dude, no other reason to go to NYC other than maybe Williamsburg. The rest of NYC, I can get at a better price in a red state. As for Long Island, still my least favorite place in North America, arguably some of the worst people I have ever encountered.

Reflection and plan moving forward. 1. Something is off for sure and I need to fix it. I have gone out in the past couple of weeks, gotten a good bit of girls to give me their Instas but they leave me on requested (or flat out reject my request a day later) and barely follow me back. Even the...

7/22/23 - My dilemma (part 3) So as I wander around the bar, trying to do 2 more approaches, I notice something. The two girls I recently approached and the two I closed earlier in the night either got with two other guys or came with them in a big group. I see them a good bit as I go around...

7/22/23 - My dilemma (part 2) 2 closes and 9 approaches. Went to the same venue near me that I went to last night. I arrive and on the way I approach a 3-set, my opener was asking about the venue and then they said the lines were empty. I then ask one girl with the leopard print how she killed...

7/22/23 - My dilemma (part 1) I spent most of today getting a ton of chores done and cleaning up my place after being out too late last night. Lesson be learned, I was spent. To make matters worse, not only did it take me forever to set up a beautiful table, I next had to set up a couch I...

You make a solid point there, being in the right place at the right time beats so much out there. A guy with average guy in an idea situation beats a guy with great game in a less than ideal situation. However, some situations just lend themselves to be more ideal than others. It seems like in...

I just had a couple of questions based on my recent approaches, they are relevant to both nightgame and daygame. 1. Say you have an approach that goes really well as in the vibe is good, she talks to you, is somewhat compliant, and you get the number close. However, it doesn't end in a same day...

If you are over the age of 25, you have zero place in a college town or any small town. If you are a single guy in your 30s, big cities are the only legitimate option. I used to feel the way you do when I was spending my early 20s in a college town. You get the pressure to mature faster and...

So proud of myself tonight. Did I get a SNL? No. Do I think I could have done better? In some ways yes. However, I am so proud of one thing and one area of growth, dealing with AMOGs. I feel like I had two sets where a dude came in and tried to invade them but I was able to just deal with...

7/21/23 - Back at it and a very proud moment. 11 approaches and 4 closes. I wanted to go out on Thursday but due to the massive amount of time I spent assembling new furniture, I had no energy for it. Friday, I knew I had to get at it. I get a text and a screenshot from one of my good wings...

Right now there are apps like The League which are choosy about who they let in and then there is Raya, maybe some forum members who have been on that app can say how good or bad it is. The problem with Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge is that they became too accessible for the average guy. It is like...

For women or for men? If both genders then it makes sense because still, the ratio is lopsided. That is why I say make it free for women but make the men pay to be on the app.

I reflected on my experiences in both NYC and even down here in Miami, noticed a trend. Tourist women and newly arrived women have always been great opportunities and the ones most DTF. When I say newly arrived, that is kind of a grey area I guess. In some ways, a woman can be in a city for over...

NOOOOOO!!! Not every guy should go on Seeking. In fact, I also love the Seeking MAKES YOU PAY to even start messaging women. Please do not advertise this. I do not want Seeking to turn into Tinder where loser bum dudes are spamming 5s and 6s with crappy lines and inflating the egos of those...

Easy, they don't get swamped with 100s if not thousands of messages from thirsty dudes trying to hit em up and get with them. Because the point of it is that these women will be ignored as the guy who are actually able to pay for the app now have solid options to where they don't even have to...

IMO, I think I know how apps can fix the issue but the forum is going to hate me for it. I think a quality app would have to treat the app like an exclusive nightclub and what happens at exclusive nightclubs? Guys pay and pretty girls get in for free. Exclusive nightclubs get the idea and they...

I would disagree with this. I have a few friends who fit the mold of "Chad" down to a tee (white, tall, former college athletes, etc.) and they are struggling on the apps. Granted, they are in Miami which is just an awfully competitive market but they showed me their matches. A lot of them were...