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BTW, thanks ##17 for the mission comment. Now I know why I cant keep a woman. I'm on a mission now to get a career and make myself very happy. Those two things come first and you helped me understand that and focus on a mission. My happiness and my mission comes first. I always will have a...

Thanks again #17 and desertfox Foxdesert yup, I did as you said and I followed thru. I left Arizona quietly. I''m finally back home in Florida now. She never called like she said she would. But I expected that. It doesnt matter because I never called her to say "goodbye" either. During the...

##17. Thanks for helping me understand my own thoughts and goals more clearer. I agree with everything your saying. I need to stop thinkign that women and people have it better than me cause they have issues too. But i wanted to ask you. If a guy worked as a waiter as was very happy about...

Its also humiliating, self-depreciating, and you lose your dignity when a woman dumps you because you are 40 and not successful. I swear to GOD i have lost so many good women who I could have easily married but they chose to dump me because I wasnt where I should be in life at 40. here is an...

yes you are right and hit the nail on the head. I am stil floundering in life---even though I have accomplished many things in life. I never quite found my niche in life. I am a communications person, teacher, hospitality. Not REAL careers. I have had four goals in life since the age of...

Im a very young looking 40 yr old male. I am told I look about 28. Youthful full head of hair, flat abs, work out alot, run. I dress really nice. I have had many dates and experiences with women in my life. Been with many different types. But right when I think I have figured women out---then i...

It doesnt feel to good when you share your dreams, goals, aspirations and career goals with a girl who you are crazy about. Then talk about marriage etc. Then get intimate with and keep in touch for a long time..only to find a way to finally get out here and only to know she is with another man...

fademan ok I will just leave tomorrow quietly. She already thinks im going to see my girlfriend tomorrow. She had said "i will call you tomorrow" before you leave. So if she does call me or texts me I am just going to ignore it and that will be end of it. what do u think better idea?

warrior74 i thought of writing her a last farewell text message for closure and for my self-esteem. Say to her "who do you think your kiddin? We are not friends. We were lovers. I had my hands on your a*ss. Now there is another guy doing that. Bye.: what do u think?

thanks warrior warrior74 i totally agree with you. I was hoping for something that was built up in my mind. I wasnt facing reality. I got bytchslapped and i did it to myself. I can finally jump on a plane and leave tomorrow and hopefully forget about her. I will never get into a long...

lets get it straight i admit i have oneitis and am AFC. ...and no i dont expect any girl to wait around for me after 2 years and living 3000 miles away. thats unrealistic. All I wanted was to say hello to her..laugh, talk about good times, hug, and say goodbye. All girls are whoores...

latino man and social calibration thanks for input ezily, social calibration and latino man thanks for setting me straight. Dont get me wrong I have been spinning plates and been with a few girls since I was texting that girl in arizona, so I have been with other women. But is just hard to...

Thanks guys. yea she was nice about it. But i felt so AFC when she said to me " i just wanted to tell you"...i was annoyed even though she wasnt my girlfriend but a fling. Girls i do not trust. They will open up to you and get you to fall for them and when they are done with you---they are...

i met this girl a few years ago in florida. We met,we hung out and bonded. We had a lot in common. She had to go home back to arizona. MY parents live in arizona and lives 3 miles from her. I told her I would visit arizona when I got free time. We kept in touch for a year via text messages and...