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    Aggression Towards Women

    Before you start flaming me...REMAIN OBJECTIVE I grew up on a farm and I was surrounded by violence. I think I only slapped one one girl in my life and I punched out about 20 guys in my life. I got into many, many fights growing up. I played all three sports. I went hunting. Thats the...
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    Aggression Towards Women

    I recently read an article on "Womens Battered Shelters." I was disturbed and also enlightened by the counselors at these centers who witness a "revolving door process"....meaning that they see many battered women going back to their abusing husbands and boyfriends. Why? It is related to...
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    Good post That was a good post and I will take that into consideration about writing it down on paper and moving on as quickly as I can. I have wasted time and going in circles and rumintaing about things I cant change. The next ten years will fly by fast. I need to get a move on with my life...
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    That was a good post about staying in control. Getting control is fundamental. As for the other guys in here. Words are just words. I dont care how tough talking you may sound----a break up can bring the strongest man to his needs. Actions speak louder than words. I can understand how...
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    Fransisco..i give you points for being funny about the closure thing...but thats slightly immature. Its funny as hell though. When you dont get closure you are in denial and choose to ignore whats really going on. I have met those kind of guys who choosed not to get closure and go out and...
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    heh thats funny closure - klō-zhər - n. (male) : The act of asking to have your other nut slammed in the door. Thats funny.
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    My parents said a similiar thing many years ago. "If it is meant to be it will happen. If it isnt then it wont happen." Thats just life. I really do believe their is a cosmic energy to closure. When you really dont need her...thats when she comes back in your life! Or you know whan you...
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    interesting posts All great posts. Its tough knowing your "once loving girlfriend" is getting drilled by someone else and calling out there name. Thats the hardest part in my mind. Its that emotional connection, dreams, desires you once shared with your old girlfriend. I even saw an...
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    Can you MOVE ON without closure?

    Im curious. In my next future relationships with women is it possible or healthy to move on without getting closure? Lets face it, getting closure with someone isnt easy-----especially when a significant amount of time has elapsed. Everyone has been hurt after a breakup. Its common. The...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    Ok then I have no choice then. I will have to be the GIANT cause I dont want to be the leader anymore. Im overqualifed as a leader and dont make a good employee either. As we speak I just my put in my two weeks notice in at my job yesterday. I hated working for my "female" boss at last job. It...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    Game? Ok, since Im an open-minded guy--Im willing to listen to you. However, instead of sifting through Rollo's or latinomans posts (and I'm sure they are very good posts)...just send me some of their EXCELLENT "having game" posts. I want to learn from the masters about what "having game"...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    bad advice on tom leykis... Tom Leykis is an idiot. It's entertainment...don't believe everything you hear on the radio. If leykis could make millions by telling men to shower women with gifts, he'd be saying that. It's all about the entertainment value and being a shock jock and getting paid...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    warrior thanks again for really listening....im still going to chicago. But i just want to retire from "the game" and settle down with a nice girl. Beautiful women are nice to look at--but have terrible reliability and i have little patience with them. They are like driving BMWs and...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    warrior74 hehheahea.....yea im tired of "manning the f*ck the up." I've been a teacher, a drill instructor, a sales manager, a hotel manager, a bartender, and a limo driver. I BURNED OUT ON BEING A BABYSITTER! Im tired of babysitting women? does anyone agree with me? I get tired of telling...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    This thread is depressing.. I started this depressing thread and I want to end it. Since reading these posts--I have been dumped by a girl I cared for a lot last week who found someone younger, stable and more richer. IM happy for her. Im sure she is exstatic and they have wonderful sex...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    This thread is depressing....lets end it. ...posted twice accidently
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    thats pretty good thinking.... I have to admit you guys have your heads screwed on right. Its true sean connery does exude coolness and maturity which comes from wisdom and age. And I do have to act 40 like IqqI says. Acting like im 28 which I have been doing is creepy and I need to grow up...
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    How is important is AGE in the dating world?

    I am 40 yr old guy(I look young--say around 28 and I act ten years younger)..but thats not what concerns me. Lately I have been feeling insecure about my age. I have been with about 100 women in my life sexually. I have had a great time with the ladies in my teens, 20's and 30's. I never had...
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    Moving on and facing the unknown with courage.

    Im writing this article based out of the respect of #17, desertfox, and a few others who have inspired me..... Moving on after a breakup or a romantic encounter can be very painful and tough on your soul. In my 40 years I have learned about myself, women, the process of dating, rejection, and...
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