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Never lower your standards. I made that mistake when I was younger and I was never satisfied. I'd go out on dates with women I felt were the best I could get and we'd have fun and I'd enjoy time with her, but I always felt like something was missing. After eventually learning to take risks and...

So I'm in line at the grill in my office's cafe and an older lady gets in like next to, and I mean right next to me, maybe 6 inches, even though there's plenty of room and no one in line behind her. At first I wasn't really consciously aware of it and I was subconsciously moving away each time...

I don't rule out single mom's completely because I do like kids and as long as she wants more it's cool. If she is still successful in life and doesn't use her child as an excuse to be stuck in her crappy job or debt, and her ex isn't a psycho, there's things a lot worse than a single mom. Of...

One thing I did was drive to a nearby major city with a friend on a Saturday and just spent the entire day talking to women I found attractive. There's basically zero chance you'll ever see the women again, you don't have to worry about getting numbers since they live too far away to be worth...

I agree. I've only went out with maybe 5 or so women since I started OLD, but they all looked as expect. Usually better, actually. I've also had better luck with OLD than meeting girls in public, as far as quality dates go. I've gone out with quite a few women I've met in public and the dates...

Sometimes it's narcissism, but other times I think it is just their nature. Women are designed to test a man's strength. If a man is strong he will quickly move on to other women when one is not showing interest. Women want to be able to feel a mans strength. She may test you just so you have...

Women are different than guys. They don't care about physical appearance anywhere near as much as guys do. Of course if they're extremely fit they're not going to be attracted to a fat slob, but what women are really attracted to is boldness and confidence to go for what you want. There is some...

When someone isn't respecting your time give them less of it or back off completely. Sounds like you guys have been dating long enough that she would be comfortable telling you she wants to see you if she felt that way. You should stop initiating contact for a while and if she contacts you let...

Personally, I wouldn't ask anything but some variation of "when are you free?" over text. If you ask some specific day and she's busy then it starts to become way too much boring texting and hard to tell if she interested. I would hope you're dating high quality women with lives and goals. They...

Nice, but those things he said are still true and are definitely something you should avoid because they will lower a woman's attraction for you. Anytime you think you have to convince a woman to go out with you, and you act on that though, you will lower her interest level for you. A woman...

Sounds like you're doing something to turn her off or she's just not that into you. Sucks when someone you like doesn't feel the same way, but it happens. When you find a woman who really likes you it will be effortless. When a woman isn't interested in you you need to back off, trying harder...

28 year old virgin and recovering nice guy checking in. 5 years ago I lived in my parent’s basement with no job and no friends. I’d had enough of being along and feeling worthless. I’d never seriously contemplated suicide because I feel it’s the coward’s way out, but it had crossed my mind...