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Sometimes the most valuable things mean nothing to fools.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-craig-malkin/neediness_b_2116608.html Interesting article on why some people are needy.

How do we prevent falling into this trap of being beta? I understand that having a lot of women around could help, but that's not always an option.

Thanks for the concise breakdown of neediness. So what would be your suggestion to stop or prevent oneself from being needy? N Thanks for everyone else taking the time to reply, some interesting replies.

It would be nice to know.

So why is it unattractive? Thoughts?

I'm ashamed to call myself human.

Good post my friend!

It's a stupid and disrespectful "test" to begin with. Nothing lost in my opinion.

It's not possible to be happy alone. Humans are wired to be social creatures, seek out companionship etc.

Interesting. I mentioned nothing about cheating and you brought it up yourself. So I'm going to go ahead and assume you think she going to cheat on you. For whatever my advice is worth, If your comfortable with her going out with other men then leave it at that. But if your not, which no self...

Runs head first into a wall*

Obviously you don't have the ability to think further than your nose.

It's whack, because you don't understand the psychology behind it.

Hold off contact. Let her contact you. If she doesn't contact you she probably has no interest. This is probably the best way to qauge interest level.

I'm glad someone agrees with me. My theory behind it is negative emotion = my absence. Although it would be difficult to gauge her true emotions which is the only problem. I also think flaking can establish you are not needy, which is attraction killer from what I know.

I get your point of view... But I think it would be interesting. I've been far too nice and accommodating. I'll have a pretty legit excuse, perhaps she needs to experience a sense of loss, don't you think?

Have any of you guys tried this, what were the results for you? Good or negative? Her emotional response, conscious and subconscious? I'm talking about women you've been seeing for a while, obviously this is not a good idea the first meet up. I've been reading The art of seduction by Robert...

Yeah. Probably going to stop making plans with this one. See what happens.

Don't bomb me bro.