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  1. ZaCool

    Girl is obviously playing games, what should my next move be

    i am not trying to wife any chick atm lol but yeah a lot of men seem to have that issue ... as for wasting energy and time, i try to minimize it as much as possible and iam already just talking to her when she reaches out to me so not wasting effort on this chick, i guess i should just not...
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    Girl is obviously playing games, what should my next move be

    Shes been showing interest for months, 3 months ago i added her on fb, chatted her up, she seemed cool and interested, a couple weeks later she blocked me on messenger, saw me on campus, unblocked me and sent me a " Hi we should meet" i told her yeah sure why not . i messsaged her the next day...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    I have always had a problem understanding why everyone says women want aszholes and women do sometimes want an aszhole , but overall i see a lot of kind men with attractive women so i know that being nice is not exactly a turn off so i can relate to what youre saying, plus i am just not capable...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    I know i say that alot and youre no the first one to actually tell me that its kinda annoying lol, if iam being honest i have a couple friends who said it was annoying how i keep telling them girls find me attractive ... but after actually hanging out with me few times around women they chagned...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    Iam poor, low status, i have no car, no place and i have to help my parents pay rent and stuff , also have annoying digestive issues which sometimes are painful (luckily doesnt happen often ) , also as i stated above iam kinda nice, i dont usually go on the "offense" sexually unless i see some...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    During my first year of college i was aloof , distant and had the attention of so many girls but i had a gf and wasnt really o need of any of these girls.... surprisingly i got 4 numbers , lots of compliments, hot chicks showing interest in me and almost banged this chick (we were on my friends...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    interesting way of looking at this, i should try this sometimes, i mean in theory i know what youre saying is true but in practice i dont do it 100% i either chicken out and message her again after she shows some interest or i dont seem busy enough ... I will try this and see how it goes, this...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    yeah i get what youre saying and youre right about everything, i did ask her out i just didnt wanna post the entire thing since its way too long lol , i told her to join me at the mall cause iam going to do something and theres a nice park by that mall where we can spend some time and have fun ...
  9. ZaCool

    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    Whether we admit it or not, looks do play a role in everything , even though iam not getting laid and some other guy is, the other dude had to work hard just to make the girl notice him while all i had to do is look at her once, but of course looks alone dont mean much if you dont know what to...
  10. ZaCool

    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    i do lack moeny a place and car, i dont think i can get a car anytime soon since i have to help my parents ... now as for a place, i have a couple friend who wanna rent a place with me and iam about to start a new job so iam actively trying to fix some of these issues, but till then i will have...
  11. ZaCool

    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    if you mean it as in being too easy and too avaiable for girls ... then i dont know anymore i was like that once years ago but i made an effort to change, iam trying to pursue instead of chase right now, but then again maybe my idea of pursuing is different from the actual thing and thats why i...
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    Escalation and getting laid, what am i doing wrong ?

    I decided after reading a lot of good informative answers on one of my questions to start this thread, mainly to find a solution or something to guide me towards the solution of my problem . I will start by presenting myself - Basically my dating life started around 18 (during highschool never...
  13. ZaCool

    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    youre nor far from the truth, iam planning on posting a thread asking about this issue, its the only thing iam struggling with, everything you said is indeed true and it does happen like that with me .
  14. ZaCool

    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    I It is .... what kind of fvcked up u have to be to trust something like your gut when it comes to women and dating .... but the more naturals and players i meet the more i realize they can "feel" it
  15. ZaCool

    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    Iam not saying any of this is wrong, on the contrary youre right, i joined this site for a reason, to understand more how to be with women and what works and what doesnt ... i still have a long way to go before i can claim that my gut instinct is superior to everyone i simply lack the experience...
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    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    Heres the thing .... on the outside iam tough and show no feelings , people usually have no idea what i want or what iam thinking and think iam emotionally tough and cant be taken advantage of .... and all that is correct iam usually in full control of my feelings but i am still a human being...
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    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    i did , it says iam a campaigner, its not 100% accurate but it got a lot of stuff right about me, esepcially the feeling what others feel part, yeah i can understand others and their feelings and feel what they feel which makes it easy sometimes to know what someone wants .
  18. ZaCool

    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    This is pretty true i must say, yes most guys that are "naturals" at least the ones i know, started dating earlier than others, while we played hide and seek at 13 they were already kissing girls. I personally first started having an interest in girls around 16-17, late bloomer i know, but i...
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    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    you explain it in an interesting way, and i do agree on some parts, yes my past is full of bad experiences with women, basically the majority of women i attracted and thought were good for the gf role turned out taken and disappointed me (yes they talk to me, show interest and all but i find out...
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    How do naturals do it - Gut instinct

    I have talked to plenty of women, went out with some ...etc you know the usual crap guys go through with women , and i have read a lot, asked here and there for advice sometimes and its all good and useful ... but in all honesty i find that the deciding factor is usually gut instinct , it...
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