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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    atom smasher good point and well written. Unfortunately, I love to write and its how I see the world. I have been writing poetry and heartfelt messages my entire life. Hard habit to break. Plus, I have masculine qualities like working on cars and selling them. I like construction work too. I am...
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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    She is appealing. I became controlling of her in the beginning and asked her to dress up in a garter belt and black stockings on the first date. When she showed up -- she exceeded my expectations. But I became arrogant, aggressive, and believed I could do anything I wanted with her. No so. I...
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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    Some women are not "cut and dry." I have nailed various types of women and using Disney like fantasies and others using Don Juan Methods. There is no "one size fits all" in dating. Not every scripted don juan method is going to work for every girl. I met a woman a year ago that likes to...
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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    You just pointed that out Captain Obvious. That is the reason of messaging her back and forth ---- to get her out and bang the sh*t out of her. Keeping the communication open. Some girls= will go out with me when I ask them directly. Other girls= like to message back and forth for a while...
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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    High interest is usually from the ugly girls. Its hard to get hot girls to have high interest in me. I usually go for the hot women that other men find hot.(obviously) What man wants to date an ugly girl? The key is to find an available pool of hot women with less males hanging around. She...
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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    I messed up with her a few months ago by being too eager to date her. We did not talk for a month after first date since I acted too aggressively with her. That turned her off. So I pulled back and began dating others. I started slowly sending her a message a month later and she would message...
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    Heartfelt messages turn on or turn off?

    I have been corresponding with this attractive older woman for a few months and had a date and a lot of emails with her. Things seem to be going well. I sent her a fantasy filled heart-felt message. Such as bottle of wine, flirting, kissing, touching, etc to turn her on. I am trying to gauge her...
  8. J

    Contact a girl who dumped me?

    Great points. I just deleted her number. Problem solved.
  9. J

    Contact a girl who dumped me?

    I wont send it. Her name is Lisa. I just don't understand women. I feel like we have to play this poker game with them.(Don't show your cards, keep yourself guarded, be clever in playing a card, think about your hand and how to play it). How does a woman go from 100% interest to 0% interest in...
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    Contact a girl who dumped me?

    I'm kind of pissed of. Me and this girl had a good connection and suddenly this girl flat out dumped me. I think she was dating another guy or maybe not. I don't know. The fact is she stopped texting me, ending dates early. I got into it with her and called her on her BS. I was going to send...
  11. J

    How to act towards a woman after sex?

    beexcellent good points. However, I am not going to send......."Look. I get it you work for Area 51. I won't blow your cover...text me at xxx-xxxx when you are back stateside." She will think I am strange if I send that. She won't know what it means. BTW, this is a woman that I had a falling...
  12. J

    How to act towards a woman after sex?

    Whats a coocky or humorous response to a woman who refuses to give out her cell number? I have been chatting and flirting with this woman for a few days. I asked for her number and she wrote me this....."I'm sorry - I'm not quite ready to give out my number yet...." But she did say she liked me...
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    How to act towards a woman after sex?

    Agree with you on points making her work for it. When a girl rejects me I agree with them and act positive because I have others in the pipeline. This makes them chase a little. Agree with when you leave....was I not good enough? Is he seeing other girls? etc. However is a guy has a big ****...
  14. J

    How to act towards a woman after sex?

    I told some chick that she looked rough when she came to meet for our 3rd date. I told her she looked like she was banging some other guy. She got pissed and left.
  15. J

    How to act towards a woman after sex?

    pierce_r what do you say to them when they they......."Wht ru up 2?"
  16. J

    How to act towards a woman after sex?

    I get a lot one night stands. The problem is -- I cant make it to the 2nd sex encounter before I get dumped. Its so easy to charm the pants off a woman and nail her the first night. But svck at relationships. I cannot remember the last time I had sex with the same girl twice. lol I nail on first...
  17. J

    Girl went ghost after sex - weird.

    Cracks open another beer. I am not going to let it get to me. What goes around comes around.
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    Girl went ghost after sex - weird.

    Bradd80 interesting perspective. I had cancelled our second date and that is when she started to be more interested in me.(Obviously) I picked up on her clues. When she said.."Are you ok?" It told me something was not "ok" with her and my instincts were telling me she was going to turn flakey...
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    Girl went ghost after sex - weird.

    She was cute and "together" on the first and second dates. Smiling, happy, content. Sex was great. Nice body. Connection was strong. She was texting me non-stop. However, on the 3rd date she behaved strangely and looked wiped out. She had stomach problems and had a major headache. I told her she...
  20. J

    Girl went ghost after sex - weird.

    She was always texting me first, I was always ending dates first, I always hung up phone first and ended conversations,...I was always busy work and other girls. So don't think that was it. Maybe it was my small apartment? I don't know.
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