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  1. ubercat

    Most relationships don't work, so what is one to do?

    I think it also depends on how they use social media. As scaramouche said the Chinese girls are amazing they constantly talk about their husbands and share cooking recipes. I am guessing that is not what the Western girls are talking about. Also worth mentioning the elephant in the room...
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    Dating has changed so much in so little time

    From what I ve seen the millennials parents must have had mean girls on loop in their cribs. They approach work the same as Instagram. They have the nasty social climbing skills. Gen next are worse. My Mrs is a nursing teacher. She gently told off some student for arriving 20 minutes late...
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    Looks matter..

    Haha after 20 years of rugby, 30 years of martial arts and 40 years of tennis you only can get so soft but that's nothing to the fitness of a man who works with his hands for a living.
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    Looks matter..

    I m a soft office toad that has to work out. Most guys I know who do a lot of yard work, ride as bike to get around locally and work on cars are solid muscle.
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    how to live like a king...

    Haha I agree with 80% of this. I think people do get to choose kids if they want. Now I m old knowing what I know I d add a couple of things on the health front. Drink a glass of pomegranate juice every day. Drink kefir every day. Add sirtfoods to yr diet. Add fibre to your diet (u can get...
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    Stop looking for simple explanations

    It's been a long time since I'm single so as usual your mileage may vary. One thing that helped me was standardizing. All the little things that go into the dating dance I had one default way for asking for the phone number getting the date organising the date etc. Had a couple of places...
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    Something i recommend you ask a woman fairly early on

    Shouldn't be too hard to go and sideways on that question - what was that your favourite memory growing up. Then you tell my story where your dad features
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    Something i recommend you ask a woman fairly early on

    Yes women seem to think any relationship is better than none. But the V dries up
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    How many of us have an overinflated sense of self?

    Geeze compared to what I see on chicks Instagram accounts I don't think too many guys need to worry. Yes work out and try and earn bank and learn some minimum game. Otherwise take your shots and the chips will fall.
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    What's the Best Way to Meet High Quality Women?

    No perfect time but early 30s is good advice. Being up to 10 years older than your woman is a good thing as long as you ve used the time wisely. Over 10 not so much. At 35 you LL be in your 50s when your kid is at college. So knocking up a 22 YO when you're 32 is as good as it gets. Women...
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    In America, men GROSSLY outnumber women!

    The men might outnumber the women. But the women outweigh the men GROSSLY
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    Are minimalist/frugal lifestyles always a turn-off for women?

    OP Yea. You absolutely have a right to live how you want as long as you aren't harming. But you asked us how that would play with the ladies generally. There seem to be a lot of ladies who like the tiny house thing. Option?
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    Are minimalist/frugal lifestyles always a turn-off for women?

    Hmm having a Toyota Supra is one thing. Much respect. But I can't imagine an older woman coping with mattress on floor or the kitchen of the single plate. It's too outside of herd values. She s going to be thinking axe murderer at worst and ex con at best. To me the DJ attitude is purpose...
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    Are minimalist/frugal lifestyles always a turn-off for women?

    Minalism plus some cool stuff would play ok. Maybe a nice escooter. Or a boat or whatever you re into. The no crockery and mattress on the floor sounds like a crack house. I can't imagine a second hand bed frame would cost or harm the planet much.
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    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    @TitusRamsies one of the worst things about being on a forum for too long is that you have to repeat yourself. I'm sure it's not good for my early onset. I think you are 100% right on the half you have. The other half to me is reassurance. Often when chicks act out with bad behaviour it's...
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    In America, men GROSSLY outnumber women!

    Damn didn't notice this was a zombie thread but since I'm here. Attractive sane woman of a fertile age will always be in high demand. I must admit I really hate American woke and cancel and corporate culture. That s*** has destroyed Australia. But there's plenty of solid level-headed smart...
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    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Not only women. I just cut a male friend because of petty point scoring and drama. The sad thing is these idiots actually seem to think their childish behaviour is normal
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    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Idk guys. I ve got no use for bossy women but I think based on OPs posts I feel there are other factors at play.
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    How to apply silence and distance in a relationship

    There are no rules if you are busy you answer when you have time for it. Stop being sucked into her frame it's your world she comes along for the ride if she wants. You might be suffering from scarcity mindset yes a nice little rice pie is great I took one home myself but there are no...
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    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Ooh actually that is dangerous advice for you. Let me qualify it you have to be a good leader. So flush your insecurities down the bwl where they belong stop monitoring the poor b**** and trying to control her every move So if you tell her that we are going to an Italian restaurant tonight...
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