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  1. ubercat

    What now ?

    I LL keep this brief. men and women are meant to complement each other. You guys who see this whole thing as a power struggle are doing it wrong. Choosing wrong. Being too reactive. Not managing frames. Not building the 'us' bubble. It's a team lead gig
  2. ubercat

    Rant: Don't Leave the Door Open w/ the B!tch

    Thank God we ve got these young guys to tell us how the world works. I personally had a plate for 13 years and I m nobody special.. Nice symmetry. She was also 13 younger.
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    Rant: Don't Leave the Door Open w/ the B!tch

    Haha this is a rant thread. Everyone here is right at different times. We re far from perfect as well. I missed out on kids because I had two attractive feminine and perfectly serviceable women at different times who were up for it and I didn't know how to manage them. Note: each would have...
  4. ubercat

    What now ?

    Just do it. Put the same energy you put into building your career and wealth. It could take a couple of years to find a girl you get along with enough. Note I said enough millions of arranged marriages work out - marriage does take work. Male fertility does fall off in mid 40s. I d suggest...
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    When you suspect she's cheating on you...

    Women are hormonal creatures. pms week anything you did or didn't do will be used against you. Best to be supportive if cohabiting or busy if not. I don't think all bad behaviour can be put down to shiat testing Re OP I'm afraid from very long experience if it feels shaky it means it's...
  6. ubercat

    A beer and a story

    Well if she has shut the clamshell to you who cares what other guy is hitting it. The good thing about chicks is they always display their worst behaviours at the end which makes you feel glad just to be rid of the drama. You know the drill brother throw yourself into work sports and social...
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    Girl I'm dating seems very moody lately

    I think the root cause of all this angst is taking a girl way too seriously within the first three months. First 3 months woman are fickle keep your options open spin plates ... enough said. My gf is Asian typically hyper jealous little units. She knew i was balls deep in several other chicks...
  8. ubercat

    Words from a guy with a younger wife

    You d better choose a good woman too. Even if you put the work in health is a genetic lottery. I ve got hernias left and right hip to deal with. 40 years of tennis
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    Do alpha males pay for sex?

    There s the something special category too. If you want to walk the chick around in a dog collar or whatever floats your boat maybe the gf won't provide that service. Putin etc special case they re so removed from the paying it would just be the air they breathe.
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    Words from a guy with a younger wife

    So how does that work if you want kids?
  11. ubercat

    Another Sexless LTR - How to stay?

    I couldn't do it. I ve dated starfish and that never lasted long. And even starfish are at least Mickey D's as opposed to a famine. It's not the lack of V it's the blatant disrespect
  12. ubercat

    Words from a guy with a younger wife

    And...? OP said wife. Different discussion
  13. ubercat

    Getting in the Game

    Be social first. Become a skilled listener. And get into some kind of team sport or volunteering. If you don't have good social skills and at least a handful of friends pickup will bleach your soul.
  14. ubercat

    Words from a guy with a younger wife

    5 - 7 years younger - recommended. 10 years is ok. Past that you d better be that buffed millionaire or Mr popular. And yes I ve been there several times.
  15. ubercat

    Beauty of a woman due to the LOVE she gets from her man

    Agree and only forever is forever. If you get 5 or 6 years out of an LTR no reason to complain. With kids different. A very wise guy I knew once sat his wife to be down and told her look babe we've had our turn once the kids come along it's all about them. And then explained how that would...
  16. ubercat

    "Has goals and is working towards them"

    And it isn't the kiss of death. I was in a career change phase in my 40s work was up and down. Still had plenty of dates and 3 ltrs (which was basically most of the decade). If a girl likes you in you have a little bit of game she will forgive all sorts of deficiencies. It's one of my...
  17. ubercat

    Pausing a relationship

    One chance per woman per lifetime
  18. ubercat

    ED after drinking too much

    I have a short glass every day. Main thing it's good for is the heart but it also improves blood flow which is y good for ED. If you can manage to eat 3 red dates 3 times a week after your pom you will triple the effect. Have a Google on sciencedirect you ll see the studies
  19. ubercat

    Argument

    BTW if you have an Asian gf and offer solutions most of the time she ll put them into practice. Why wouldn't you go with what's better :p
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