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    Never buy a drink?.. bullsh!t

    Lol I've taken that advice in the past and even applied it to female friends. I wasn't seen as a badazz. I was however seen as a cheapazz. Keep that in mind. I agree that you should really only buy a woman a drink whom you just met AFTER you have talked to her and connected with her. Then...
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    Chicks with hot bodies but not so hot faces

    http://i124.photobucket.com/albums/p6/leth2k/baghead.jpg
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    The LTR and the Pursuit of Happiness

    Good ****. I just recently entered into a LTR. Great girl, but I won't forget this post.
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    So the chick just LJBF'd you. Simple reply.

    hmm... I would say a girl usually thinks about it before she blurts out the LJBF speech. It's probably not easy for the girl to reject you especially if she really considers you her friend. (Unless she's a cold-hearted b17ch of course.) Remember that the LJBF speech usually means that she...
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    what is wrong with me lol

    Well there ya go. Social anxiety and depression are tough. But you can get out of the cycle. I am pretty neurotic like you and had both depression and probably social anxiety as well. But I eventually learned how to get around this and got laid. I currently have a ltr. I still fight the...
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    After hooking up with an ex...

    IMO, the only thing you should contact her about is sex. Do not pursue a relationship again. Not worth it bro. Be nonchalant about your interactions and continue to pursue other girls. You seem like you already have this mindset. She should just be like any other plate. If she contacts you...
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    How should I handle this?

    Sounds like a blatant attempt to get you and the other guys jealous (if there is other guys). She wants to let everyone know she is desired because obviously she has low welf-esteem. Obviously she knows you will see it. Attention ***** if there ever was one. Don't play her game, retract your...
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    I think I've become afraid to have sex..help appreciated

    When I equate sex to a performance I can have ed problems as well. Think of sex as a raw animal instinct, not a performance. Or better yet, don't think at all, just fvck. The other night I was with a fwb and another friend of mine that is a girl was having sex with some guy in the room next...
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    Got involved with a friend don't want to hurt her, advice needed

    If I could describe her personality it's like the female version of a nice guy. I love her as a friend but she's too nice, it bores me. No challenge. No opinions for herself. Her sense of humor bores me. I need a girl that can match my wit, she falls flat. She's not good a flirting and not...
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    Give your experience of how a girl showed you that she was (is) attracted to you

    YES!! Very true. Girls with different types of personalities will express it in different ways. I think the best thing to look at is the eyes. Eye contact will usually give it away. With deep eye contact, some girls will stare back into your eyes and give an obvious expression of glee or...
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    Got involved with a friend don't want to hurt her, advice needed

    Ah, had a chance with three other girls last night at the bar. One came up to me blatantly and basically told me she'd fvck me right then if we left the bar, no strings attached, said we'd never see each other again no problems. I didn't even spit any game at her, she was just a straight...
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    give me 10 things you like about yourself

    Great idea. As began writing this I realized how hard it was to do this. It seems we are always trying to find things that are wrong with us. I could probably name 20 things I don't like about myself yet it took a good amount of time to come up with this list. 1. I have a great sense of...
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    Got involved with a friend don't want to hurt her, advice needed

    I won't be able to cut it off completely because we see each other ALL the time. I've been trying to see her less because I don't want to give her the wrong idea. However we saw each other all the time even before we got involved so it's not gonna be easy to do without hurting her. Of course...
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    Sex is overated.

    Lol, exactly. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHE_9Q6nqmc
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    Got involved with a friend don't want to hurt her, advice needed

    I'm single and intend on being single for the rest of my college career. Recently however I got involved with one of my female friends. I've known her for a few years now and never really felt anything more than just friends with her. I knew she has had a little crush on me for some time...
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    "If someone better came along, ide leave you"

    Honestly I'd just play it cool Crissco. Continue to take her out places and hang out with her and have fun with her. Don't get upset over this. I'm sure you can easily judge her interest level and I'm willing to be it's still high. If she's trying to create a little space between you and her...
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    "If someone better came along, ide leave you"

    Damn man that hurts. Here's what I take out of it. In my experiences I've found that most girls are ultimately looking for a relationship. I'm willing to be she considered you at one point as relationship material but you never attempted to lock it up so she started looking elsewhere. She...
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    If human beings need intimacy, then how can one not be desperate.

    I agree with scars. I desired intimacy by far more when I was a young insecure afc. Now that I've had multiple sexual and intimate encounters, I really don't NEED them anymore. Of course the desire is still there but the satisfaction is nowhere near the level of my first intimate partner...
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    Stop Being Desperate!

    Here's how you stop being desperate. "That girl looks cute so I'm going to talk to her to find out if she's cool enough for me" If this is what goes on in your head then you have the dj mindset and desperation is not an issue.
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    Getting my Girl-friend's Interest Back !

    Great advice. Simple but to the point. Being a jerk is underrated, especially in these situations.
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