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This + working on your own life to the best of your ability. Yeah it sucks that you're not getting exactly the kind of girl you're attracted to, but that orbiter 6 or 7 will make things a lot easier on your journey. Work on your SMV nonstop. Keep working out and going for your ideal body. Keep...

By "opting out," I meant completely abandoning the fact that there are still quality women around. I guess I've just been lucky and have been able to find myself a few quality women within the past few years. Edit: I do retract the thing I said about existential depression though.

In my opinion, I believe it's more about coming to terms with your Beta and knowing when his persona is causing destruction to your life. Wanting admiration, love, and respect from a quality woman is too biomchanically imprinted in our genes that it's nearly impossible to feel complete...

In that case, yeah, I'd start with something like that first. If that doesn't seem to get the point across or if she isn't able to take your story and relate it to her situation, then I'd do the direct approach next.

I almost forgot what a purely shaved vag looks like up close o_O. Spanish girls are kind of hairy from what I remember. Don't shave it all off like you said. There's something alluring about the fur. I'd say keep it and have fun with it until you get tired of it and then reduce as necessary to...

Hard to tell what's needed in each individual situation. Asian girls are Asian, but they're still girls nonetheless. I feel they need dynamic leadership, consisting of both nonchalant indirectness and firm directness. What do you mean by they communicate very indirectly? Example?

"k" would be my first choice.

It will hurt if she flakes on you again. I still suggest you go ghost, but if you want to play with her hamster a bit, respond with a generic one word answer to make her think she's got your attention. After that, never respond to anything else she ever says to you again, ever.

I'd say don't respond. If the mutual co-worker friend says anything about it, just act casual. "Guess we could never agree on a date" with a happy face. And if you happen to run into her by any chance, don't even mention it. Just be courteous and move on...like the passerby she is. Even if...

Happens to all of us bro. It's probably just a phase. We slayed girls when we were younger and were at our social peak. We say things like "I should have focused more on my finances/business..." We slayed the corporate world or built a business. We say things like "I should have been more...

Staying in contact with exes is complete dismissal even at the slightest misbehavior. Exes are completely red flag nonos no matter what anyone says. If she respects you, she'll let you check her **** and her social medias to make sure. But the truth will eventually come out if she is lying. I'm...

She played it differently in her head than how it actually was. But for the most part, she's right. I wouldn't say something like this to a non-traditional kind of girl. I wouldn't want this topic to become a semantic debate... like some other threads :confused:... so I'll just say: Imagine...

Lies about her orbiters? Your gut will usually give you clues as to whether she's lying or not. Catching a liar is talked about a little bit in these forums. They deserve their own threads.

Sincerely noted. Although, with that hick up, my gut tells me that I didn't really do a significant amount of damage that would make a difference. I agree that the woman should benefit if I allow her to.

99% true. Which is why it's important to screen her on this issue as early as possible.

It's a cultural thing. In the Asian culture, how a woman acts greatly reflects upon her man, so I was just enforcing that idea. This is generally accepted in traditional households (in which this woman is actually pretty traditional, so she took it to heart). Also, I think it all depends on how...

I'm addicted to screening. A girl I was seeing recently asked for LTR status. I decided to accept because it doesn't make too much of a difference to me. She's already quite submissive, loving, and likes to run to the door when I come home from work at night. I figured I'd give her a shot. I...

Some women aren't worth our attention. Some places aren't worth our citizenship. For those who wish to be white-knights of something with low value, more power to you.

Desdinova's main point is that if you ever find yourself trying to work for relationship security, you've got the wrong frame. Sure, you can throw in a little bit of beta game once in awhile to make them feel like they're in some kind of romantic drama, but she should be the one focusing on...

i haven't posted in years, but i had to log on just to say that, this is probably the best thing posted in the tips section within the past few months.