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How do you guys deal with such issues? Other question I have, today this girl had to leave work because she felt sick. What would someone do in a normal situation. Would you ask this person on FB the day after how she is? I'm not going to ask her anything because it would probably come over as...

Somewhere deep down I know it. I'm just going through a rough time lately, basically because of all the missed opportunities. This girl I'm talking about, she's beautiful and we have the same interests. There were other girls who were into me, but I just repelled because of how I act. I also...

Thanks for all the advice guys, I'm going to sit down this weekend to think about it. Hard part is I don't have much time the next year because of the company I got into, but I'll do my best. I want to make clear how deep the problem is situated because of something that happened yesterday and...

That's what I'm doing, with my hobby I meet new people often. I have a side job as a waiter where I also meet new people every time. I've put myself out there, but nothing...

Hi all I've been single for a while now and - know you have to be happy alone before you can expect a new relationship or that someone will notice you. But I can't seem to achieve this. I have a lot going for me, have an exciting hobby, am fit and go to the gym three times a week, have a job...

Everything I achieve, that I do is put in my mind into a negative state. Lately I started a new job (work/education) in aviation. I'm currently studying for it but even though I find the subject interesting (I choose for it) I find it pathetic and nerdy. I put this into view with woman and...

I completely understand that making new friends would help. But making friends is difficult for me. And besides, these are friends who I've known for over 10 years, dumping them because of this ex would be stupid. How would you feel someone from your closest friends would just vanish because of...

If I choose to never see my ex again, I won't see my friends ever again, won't go on holidays... This would bring me in a worse situation...

Can anyone give some advice?

I posted a lot of threads recently. One thing that is made clear at this point is that I'm 90% over my 13 year older BPD ex. But apparently I'm completely not over my ex from 6 years ago. I just went on a trip with her (and with other friends as we have the same group of friends). And I...

Now that I'm sober, jesus I'm pathetic... Crying over something like that. But yeah the fact that I'm optionless is weighing a lot on me these last weeks. That and the fact of all the missed opportunities I've had with girls who I know afterwards were into me.

Some of you know the story. Some of you don't. Long story short, I had an affair with a 13 year older married woman with three children for a half year. It ended in the beginning of april. She worked where I worked (but quit working in May). We were both waiters. She started a new affair with a...

I recently had sone pm's with Konada. He requested I told him basically my life story. I want to share this with everyone and want to hear everyone's opinion. This is a long post, but thanks for those who read and respond. My first real crush happened at the age of 11 (life before this has...

In fact I have jumped out of a working plane, I skydived for a while and am currently paramotoring. I like it, but when I get in bed I'm still as unhappy as before. Doing what I really want doesn't change much for me... Why I want to be in such a dramatic situation is because at least someone...

I apologize because many of you have read through countless posts of my break up and threads I started, sharing good advice of which I apparently didn't (or can't) apply.

I chased the job for myself, because I really want to do this for the rest of my life. My hobby (paramotoring) I also did for myself, I've always wanted to do this. I must admit that posting a picture of it on Facebook (as it is with any pictures you post there) is not to 'complete' my...

Thanks everyone for the responses, it creates hope. I have just been in a week of negative thoughts and mostly about all the missed opportunities with all the girls I could have been with. Looking back you see the signs and hit yourself in the head. But it brings comfort to know I was an ever...

I have read so many stuff and applied it the best I can, but nothing is happening. I have things going for me, I get called good looking often (but am percieved as a silent guy), I got into a high esteem company, go to the gym three times a week and currently am just shy away of a perfect...

They are learned and known when the situation arises again. I'm going to delete this sentence as it will probably bring too much confusion indeed.

This has to be my greatest fallacy, I'm not great in conversation or social life (difficult making friends). I've never found clear answers to the following questions and hope some of you can guide me or point me to must read books. 1. How he/she says stuff? We all know people who can...