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Thanks for your responses, I'm going to go deeper into it when i have some more time and figure out what I have to do. But I don't understand anymore. Today I was crossing her and before we crossed she said hi to my colleagues who were 5m from me in a group. She didn't even look at me or said...

This bigger problem you are talking about is the scarcity mindset?

I value my career a lot indeed, if I would tell what I'm doing and how I got in you would understand, but I'm not going to because you never know who is reading this forum as well... I'm currently approaching no one (in fact I have never done this in my life, I've always let them come to me)...

I agree with the fact I should get her out of my head, especially since we work at the same company and the break up would ruin my career. But the fact we work at a company which is directed around a specific branch, we both have the same interests and would make it the even more perfect girl...

How? I mean I just completely have a black mind, I don't know what to say without coming over as saying something just to say something with a hidden purpose. Hell I am even jealous to other guys she talks to. Or fantasizing about how things could be,.. Damn I hate this, I'm 27 years old and...

Let's assume that I got a 0,01% chance I indeed would not go for it because it would devastate my career if it would end badly. Probably this is just a lame excuse for me to keep on saying nothing to her, but I need to get over it. I don't know what it is lately, I've been there for three...

True, but it's difficult to get out of the fear of rejection mode.

I haven't posted in this thread for a couple of months, but since many of you guys helped me (even after I completely ignored the advice), I want to tell my own experience to people who are struggling with a break up. The main thing you have to remember and that everyone will tell and you won't...

Is there actually any chance left? I don't work with her on the same thing and didn't really had the chance to talk to her, but am going to see her more often the next weeks/months. Not that I'm going to do it, my fear of rejection is just too big. I'll regret (I already do) it afterwards, but...

But can I assume she was interested at some point? Is catching a girl looking at you often a sign or is it just she's looking to see if I'm not looking?

Hi all I've been starting to work at a company for a few months now. There is this very pretty girl who I 'caught' looking at me from time to time. But as I'm an AFC in these months I haven't even said a word to her besides a 'hi' in the morning. I notice her not looking at me anymore, not...

I get the arguments. But here are my thoughts. I liked being a waiter, I felt confident in doing it, it improved my social skills (to some point as I still have issues with my new colleagues). But I got complimented a lot on my work and other aspects. It payed horrible of course, but I came...

I've been thinking about that a lot for the last couple of years but I just can't seem to figure out in what I would start my own business. For some reason I think I would love it.

What did she say? I saw only two things and only hear the word f*ck

Hey guys I have a serious dilemma. In september I started in a company after a rigorous selection procedure. I am very interested in the work I have to day there. I quit my previous job as a waiter because of this. But I don't know, I don't feel that good there. My current colleagues are...

Hi Next week I have an informal meeting with the CEO of the company where I work, together with a few colleagues who started at the same time as I did. This is just to get to know us and ask questions etc... Now if you look through the threads I posted on this forum, one main issue is that I...

Hi I've been without a 'normal' girlfriend for almost 7 years now, I had a short affair with a married woman (see other threads on this), but I don't count this. Something obviously is not right with me if it takes this long, I'm decent looking, have a good physique. But that is were my list...

How do you guys deal with this? Hypergamy is in every woman and I don't blame them, but there is always a better guy than each and one of us. We do it too if we see a prettier and more fun girl. How can you be serious with a girl if you know she'll get rid of you if someone better comes along...

Bought a new phone which was able to run Tinder, so I installed it. I've had it for two weeks I think, it was never my intention to talk to any of them or get more out of it as I am in a very busy period with work and don't have the time. I would use it just to see what my market value is. I...

But how do you achieve this mindset? It's clear that the way I'm thinking is wrong. But trying (for over three years now) to 'change' is apparantly not helping, it's in fact making it worse. I do enjoy my current hobby as it is something I've always wanted to do. The side effect of the fact...