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Thank you so much for all the wisdom brotha. I'm definitely not going to give in and give up. Not the type of person I am. I guess I just need to vent since the concept of sharing what's going on inside of me is somewhat foreign as I come from a stern Russian household. Men are not to show...

**UPDATE** Thought I write an update. We are finalizing the divorce. She is permanently going to reside in Germany after our last and quite possibly final conversation via phone. She's much happier since her friends and family are there for her support and to be completely transparent, it's...

Thanks for the advice.

I think the previous comments resonate with me more. I don't think I should reach out. If the gal is interested, she'd reach out, and if she isn't super interested it's probably in my best interest to just move forward unfortunately...

Thanks. Yeah I figured that would be the sentiment. I should have been more specific before she left on that 2nd date... :confused:

1. How does that not exist? I meant she doesn't have much going for her outside of being hot. I'm more than aware that she probably has many orbiters at her fingertips. 2. The ex is what I was thinking as well. Should I just let it be? I want to text her one last time but maybe it's best to...

I'll make this quick. Currently spinning 2 plates successfully. I met another girl a week ago which made the other two gals seem insignificant by comparison... She's extremely attractive. We went on two dates. Both went very well, walked hand in hand, made out, etc... She showed all the...

OP. This happens to everyone it seems. Best thing for me is I have a ton of hobbies. Thankfully my job constantly introduces me to new people, but it is SO difficult to find people that you connect with. Like many, all my close friends are now married, and NONE of their wives like me lol. I've...

1) I had a friend who recommended reading The Rational Male. Bought it on audible and finished it. So yes, there are many aspects that I agree with, and some that I do not. But I think I can understand why many men will buy into it as 100% truth. Personally, I know people of both sexes who do...

Dudes. I have NO idea why she did it. Can it be just for a green card? Well it's weird because once again we're getting a divorce. See below: [Three years from the date you become a permanent resident, you can apply for U.S. citizenship, so long as you remain married to, and living with the...

Thanks for the all the advice to everyone here. Means a lot.

There's no going back with what she did.

"And there's another benefit to being married to a U.S. citizen: Three years from the date you become a permanent resident, you can apply for U.S. citizenship, so long as you remain married to, and living with the citizen. Most green card holders have to wait five years before applying for...

Most of the women I've dated have been HB8's or higher. Not trying to brag, just the truth. One thing you learn is no matter how hot the person, after waking up next to them for 1400 days plus, you start to want other things. Best analogy is, I love fruit loops, but after eating fruit loops for...

In a way this would be easier if I found out she had someone else. At least then I'd be pissed and not just left completely confused. I'm not moving to Germany. Fvck that. Honestly, I'm not completely torn up by the situation. I have sexual options, I'm not in a terrible place financially, I...

Amen.

Let me rephrase, she has obtained her green card. NOT citizenship. Her interest level in me was always higher than mine. This was by design. I never ever give a girl my full amount of love as I have been burned terribly back in 2005, which in this case, has proven to be a smart move... albeit...

MIND YOU, she promised she'll start working once she obtain the citizenship but once she did she kept putting it off. The picture I am painting really doesn't represent out relationship well, she wasn't that type of woman, status meant very little to her or at least what I'm trying to believe...

Correct. She just got her US.C since she couldn't work and I decided to get married on paper so she can obtain her US.C. She has it now but from my research she will lose it if I file for divorce since we've only been married for 1 year. No kids thank god. No joint ownership of property. She was...