She throws **** test after **** test at you and the fact that you haven't bolted for the door tells her that
A) You are a willing doormat
B) You enjoy it
They punish you for being with them because they know that any guy that truly respects himself and his sanity would never tolerate being...
Just to add i am good friends with a chick that i believe has BPD although i treat her as more of a case study. She is always honest with me because she knows i don't judge her. This girl is an actual Train wreck! I am talking..
1) Can not be alone
2) Is about to have her 2nd abortion of the...
And there we have it
You have Empathy and it is this that she is attracted to. You are less likely to abandon her as you are able to put yourself in her shoes and feel 'for' her. She has turned what empathy you do have into a weapon to be used against you and now you are confused and making...
Here is an idea
Instead of looking outward to see if this chick is BPD instead look inward.
BPD chicks tend to go for the same kind of guy in my experience. Either..
A) You are over playing your masculine card to everyone on this thread to cover up for what is truly inside..ie You are...
I went on a first date with a girl and told her i was tired of dating girls with Daddy issues.
She went all coy and said "i don't like my Dad"
What ensued was 6 months of **** testing and head****ery. Oh how i wish i would have walked away!
After i walked away at the 6 month mark i started to...
Good advice but i
I had that cramping feeling in my gut during a first date once.
4 months later i was depressed and thinking of suicide...
Personally i wouldn't even go for the first lay. Mine was NPD/BPD and gave me PTSD.
It's when you are dating a she devil that pretends to be a hot woman that you unwittingly find yourself falling in love with.
Borderline Personality Disorder
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder
Maybe not but have a degree of empathy. For all you know this guy could be on the edge and there you are telling him his ex is definitely banging his brother, the one guy see should be able to trust!
The guys situation is ****ed up and the truth always reveals itself. . But any doubts in his...
Already mentioned but she threw you a test and you failed.
She wanted to see if you would take the lead and you failed.
Onwards and upwards. Next time you say something like "7pm at such and such bar. Ps I'm a sucker for a black dress and red nails ;)"
Live, Learn and prosper
Often i think the world would be a better place if anyone with BPD was just sent to a gas chamber but other times i think if it wasn't for encountering a BPD then many of us would never have had the chance to face and heal our childhood wounds.
It literally is a case of what doesn't kill you...
Joined so i could chip in with this Topic. There are plenty of BPD threads on here but it is a recurring theme that needs to be bought to attention as much as possible.
The fact this guy decided to off himself wasn't "weak" or anything of that ilk..
She most likely bonded to him via all of the...
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