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If you always do what you have always done then you will always get what you have always got

Personally... and I have done plenty of dating in my time.. I would say that 60-70% of women who use online dating either have a fully fledged Cluster B Personality Disorder or come very close to it. Either that or I have just dated a lot of Cluster B's but always got discarded after a month or...

They are like sharks and can smell the blood of a wounded fish from miles away. You are no longer bleeding!

I hear you Brother! Never a word spoken in anger between her and I although I did catch the sharp tip of her raging tongue once or twice. It was her fear of abandonment that I had unknowingly triggered. I yearned to keep things as they were in the beginning but my efforts were fruitless. I...

With BPD's it's very much a case of the cure is in the sickness. I guarantee once you properly recover from a BPD you will run like hell when you see another one coming!

Let Fools be Fools...

I just found this really interesting thread on BPD'S http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/part-1-i-guess-im-dating-a-chick-with-bpd-please-help-if-you-have-experience.185333/

Going into a dynamic knowing exactly what you are walking into is one thing.. Meeting a girl that mirrors you to make you believe you have met your 'soul mate' before devaluing you and discarding you is another thing.

Narcissists and Borderlines make the perfect recipe for a big old **** pie! Narcissm forms the central nerve in 70% of Borderlines which is why it can often be difficult to distinguish between which Cluster B disorder she actually has. All this is somewhat irrelevant as all that really matters...

"According to Hyginus, sirens were fated to live only until the mortals who heard their songs were able to pass by them" Basically if every guy was able to spot a BPD from 1000 paces and avoid her then the BPD woman would simply die. Evidently there are always 1000 guys waiting behind you for...

These chicks are Sirens sitting on the rocks and drawing unsuspecting sailors to their doom. You were a salty sea captain and still you kept on sailing toward those rocks! Shows the power these broads have!!

Most Men in Prison in the UK have BPD. I think it's around 75% diagnosed. Many men tend to be diagnosed as Antisocial rather than Borderline.

You probably have your own issues with abandonment. I left my bpd ex (if you can call her that) 18 months ago. I jumped the gun and dropped her because my own fear of abandonment was triggered. I blocked her number after she dropped me a text saying how confused she was. Never looked back...

The issue isn't having to trust others, it's learning to trust yourself and your own gut instinct. I guarantee that when you met your ex something about her just felt 'off' but you couldn't put your finger on it. Rather than bolting for the door you stuck around to see what she was about. She...

Don't ever do it.. Period!!!

Also the key to overcoming a cluster B ex is simple.. Learn to feel as good about yourself by yourself as your cluster b ex made you feel during the love bombing phase. Learn to like yourself and accept yourself with all of your imperfections. Once you have attained this level of comfort in...

Once you have navigated through the snake pit that is a Cluster B relationship, all future engagements with 90% of women just become child's play. You will no longer tolerate Bullchit You will never let a woman rule your heart You will never drop your guard And you will never be side swiped...

To me it's that moment when I realised that by following what seemed right was actually me following the path set out for me by my relatives of past. To ultimately join them on the bench reserved for the divorced with a jaded ex wife whom would only let me have weekend access to my children. A...

www.shrink4men.com is a great site with a great forum for any man that has had or is having dealings with cluster b women.

Exactly! I wasn't a true Beta so to speak but i wasn't far off. This BPD girl chewed up my soul so i had to rebuild and was able to leave out all of those Beta traits. I would never wish a Cluster B on any man or woman. The reality is that healthy people sniff these people out and walk away...