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    Preferred Age Group For Dating

    Hey guys Would like to know if you have a preferred age group when it comes dating? I'm 43 and I prefer girls between the range of 28 - 32. That seems to be my sweet spot. I've dated much younger girls and it felt like I'm going out with my niece. I've also gone out with women in their late...
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    Worst first meet of my life

    This. Listen to my gut very carefully when it comes to women these days. Especially when it comes to online dating. If I don't feel totally convinced when it comes to meeting someone, I won't waste my time with her.
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    Worst first meet of my life

    Funny how almost every girl put loves to travel in her bio. Some list all the countries or put the country flag emoji in their bio. NEXT :)
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    Worst first meet of my life

    Hey man. Don't feel bad about it. I've met my fair share of women online and there were a few duds. Like what most guys here have mentioned, if there's good online chemistry, it will usually flow over when you meet for the first time. However, there were times when online was good but things...
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    Losing Friends As I Get Older

    That's very true. Some don't even like me texting their husbands like I'm some secret lover.
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    Losing Friends As I Get Older

    Hey guys, I'm coming 43 this year and my social circle has shrunk to a miserable state. Almost all of my friends are married and you know once that happens, trying to meet up with them is next to impossible. Plus I've recently ended my LTR so that's someone close to me out of my life. I'm a...
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    GF's Sexual Past...Might Break Up With Her

    Yes, WDW's last two lines sums it up. She is supposed to be an investment, not a liability.
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    GF's Sexual Past...Might Break Up With Her

    I'm in the same shoes as you OP. I'm dating this girl (not exclusive) who is 30 and has been with 10 guys as well. To me, that's more than I can accept. I've been with older attractive women who has much less than that. If a woman needs to go through that many men, something about her ain't...
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    Do you accept bullsh!t coz you want the pvssy?

    Can't get any better than this post. And I'm very guilty of having it in the reverse order from my 20s to 30s. These days, my investment in women is so low i drop them for things i would have tolerated before. Truth be told, many of these girls are not deserving of our time, affection, money. We...
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    Thank You Text After First Date

    Hey Guys After a first date, do you use a thank you text from the girl as an indicator to follow up on the 2nd if you're keen? Would you still ask her for a 2nd date if you don't hear from her after the 1st date? I've had times when the girl would send the usual thank you text and go MIA...
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    Rules To Live By

    Another one from experience: Never get into a relationship with a woman who has cheated or had affairs with married/attached men If they can justify their poor moral choices then, they can also justify it when with you
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    Everyone knows this but I will tell the story again.

    Awesome post. This is the lifestyle we men should be having. Focusing on our goals and aims while making women a side mission. Never make women the centre of your universe. I see that happening with so many of my guy friends and it's bad. I do admit that I fell into a phase where i craved female...
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    Started playing games...

    I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to just move on and date other girls. If her interest level is high enough she will want to initiate contact and see you again. The ball is now in her court. I can see that you are starting to develop a slight case of oneitis. Been there done...
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    Need solid talk now!

    Great advise on plate spinning. I feel that it's also very important to only spin plates with women of high quality. I recently got myself into a fix with a plate where i started developing an emotional attachment. We have good chemistry but her values leaves alot to be desired. Emotionally...
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    What's your opinion on cheaters?

    If you know that a girl you have been dating has cheated before, DO NOT even consider making her your gf. She's only good for a fwb deal. I was dating this girl for a few months and things were going fine. Till we had a discussion on infidelity and she mentioned that she cheated once on her ex...
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    Young women and flakyness

    Like what the rest have said, it's something all girls do. Just got flaked on by a 33yr old today. No biggie. Saves you time and money. Spend it on girls that enjoy your company.
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    Am I being too judgmental?

    Hey guys I have been casually dating this girl for a few months. Amongst my other plates, i find that the chemistry is best with this one. We have discussed past relationships before but not in detail till a few nights ago. A few things about her that really triggered my red flag radar 1...
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    Am I being too judgmental?

    Moved to main forum http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/am-i-being-too-judgmental.234852/
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    Ever just say "fvck it" and friend zone a chick?

    I suggest that you don't waste time with women like that, even as just friends. Not worth the drama
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    Question for men 45 and older

    I just turned 40 and this topic has been on my mind too, marriage and kids. 99% of my friends are married with at least a kid. I can't say that all of them are having great marriages. And having kids does take a toll on both their health and marriage. It's rather scary seeing how their whole...
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