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I'd sue the doctor for requiring a spouse to sign. Its a breach of privacy. Would the same apply to tubes tied? Also there has to be a jurisdiction that allows random DNA tests. The mail is your friend. Next they will allow child support claims based on word alone.

Epi, how many WWs are reformed at marriagebuilders? Not near the percentage of wayward husbands that are brought around. If she's already meeting some guy off a cheating site, its done. I'd stake my MB username on it. She's cake eating if he stays, that is all. And I can't give a rep to...

You were hurting pretty badly when you first got here. You sure you're up for this? Be sure on the commonlaw. Be sure on the birth control. Be sure on your frame.

If dad cheated, watch your six! We model what we know.

This is one of those life lessons. Careful this woman is capable of anything. And the husband probably has no clue. I promise you she's still cashing his paycheck. Eject maverick!!

Five minutes I'm never getting back.

Can you get back into your program? That looks like your best option. This isn't rocket science. Spend less than you make. Invest. Time and pressure moves mountains. There is no quick fix to build wealth, despite this forum being littered with claims. Mrmoneymoustache.com Take a year...

Not really sure why so much strategy needs to go into this. If she breaks up with just say OK. And move on.

Agree, say nothing. If questioned tell the truth. "I've never cheated, it was before us"

Saw your other thread. You need to take some action. Today, tomorrow, everyday. Go sign up, right now.

No kids or tie downs, go for it. Work hard, save your money. Just remember you will probably only have 15-20 years before the trucks are automated.

Assuming the new guy isn't her affair partner its only a case of any port in a storm for her. Interchangeable commodity packaged provider. You're making the mistake of assuming she's "happy". Its an act. There is no happy for women like this. She's secure, and that's as good as it gets. You...

He's probably an alright guy. And just as much of a chump as you were. As we all were.

Speed dawg all due respect but what exactly is he supposed to do differently? He said his wife cheated. She's introducing the kids to a new guy. What control does he have? If he does everything perfectly he might get an equal legal footing. But I don't see any recourse for him or me or anyone...

Hey at least you understand what happened. Most guys would chase her for another month.

I'm telling you it is normal. The wife moves on and pays no penalty for past behavior. Some guys will reject because she has kids but most won't. I get the worry, and I'd never make light of the concern. But you have very little you can do. Just see the kids a lot, know what goes on. I would...

Because all he sees is her good side and a ton of sex. My ex did the same thing. It is in their nature to work as hard as they can to lock down the best man they can. Now instead of figuring it out, you should be fighting your own fight. How about you forget about her and focus on what you want?

People don't change.

Put another way, do you want to be involved with a woman who would pull this when things seem ok? No, so move on.

Dude, it doesn't matter if she slept together or not. Just what you told us is more than enough to bail on a serious relationship. You ignore this fact at your own peril.