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Oh. And I decided to be selfish when I was out. And majorly reduced politeness

Btw i don’t follow standard protocol. I know it. I just do what I feel like hahaha. Already suffered enough consequences for being afc. I was alpha. Had some traumatic sh!t happen. Then on my way back. Got this. Hundo

Okay. So I was like Fts. I called her. She sounded pretty serious about the friend and so forth. One of my friends had previously asked me to go out for wings tonight. So I decided to treat it like a night out with the boys. Rather than a date. And told her I’d meet up with them. The...

I loosely followed this. So we’ll see what she responds with. Lol

Well based on the info you’ve provided I wouldn’t suggest that she’s bpd. But if she’s lying, and it ainte on her back, I’d at most just keep her for f**cking.

Girl and myself have plans for this evening. Like first date type situation. She messages me and says that her friend wants to come and asks me to bring one of mine. What do you guys think? Sh!t test?

classic woman :rofl: :lol:

I don’t see what the problem is. Would you like to be her gay male friend? Why does it matter if she’s texting her orbiters. She wants to meet up with you. Maybe you’d prefer to be the guy she doesn’t want to spend time with irl and just be her text orbiter?? She can go hang out with...

I agree. It’s pretty simple. you make plans. Go out. When you’re with her escalate. Then have sex. thats what id do anyway. If a girl gets in touch with me, I make plans. Then I try and hook up.

I agree. This is a major red flag and from my experience these are always the manipulative ones. They do this to occupy space in your head, get you emotionally hooked, so they can get their validation/attention. It never ends well lol.

I’ve been keeping the texting to a min. Once every few days. Got a date set anyway, but I find you gotta keep them at a certain range of distance or the likelihood of them cancelling goes up. But also not being boring.

I was dating this one girl and she never had anything of value to say lol. But she’d text me relentlessly and get offended if I didn’t respond right away. Drove me nuts. She was really hot though. I met this other girl a few nights ago at bar. She seemed really high interest when I met...

wtf you texting about lol

If they break you down. Then you’re no longer attractive to them so they dump you From my experience, when I feel good, am taking care of my social life, and just doing what I want, girls stick around. But if they’re needy and insecure, then they’ll think you’re cheating on them, they’ll go...

It almost seems like the goal of every woman is to break you down and control you. Oh and you have to pay for dates btw. If they break you down. Then you’re no longer attractive to them so they dump you

Hell yeah. That’s very accurate. I’ve been there. One day you’re the leader of your own life. The next you’re a slave to the relationship, becoming weak and needy, then being dumped because you’ve changed. After a bad experience or two, lots of us learn to never get lost in the relationship...

The problem is how people conceptualize themselves. You can have a hot girl that’s insecure. You can have an unattractive guy that has all the confidence in the world. And this shyt makes a difference! At the end of the day your smv is determined by how you perceive yourself, you project it...

i mean it’s fun when a chick gets a bit stalkery. You know. Like creeping your Facebook or something haha. Then you smash them. But when it gets to the level of this one, you know you screwed up in selection.

I had one girl that I broke up with. A few days later I was laying on my couch watching a movie. And she texted me “why are all your lights on”. It really creeped me out. Because I looked around and sure enough all my lights were on. I’ll always remember that one.

It seems to me that cellphones have made everyone so available these days. Do you see the never ending text conversation as a possible way to build attraction or an attraction killer? Should texting be used primarily for logistics? To be clear, when I say never ending text convo. I mean a...