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You research it so you know what’s going on but at some point you have to stop doing that and focus on solutions

The amount of haters that you have is an indication of your level of success

Also recommend that you stop researching things with regards to cluster B personality disorders. I assume you are from what you said. I did that too. It makes things worse.

This doesn’t sound like a good situation for you. Sounds like you have infatuation, obsessive thoughts, and are ruminating. She will not change man. For her to change would require a huge effort and commitment on her part and one hell of a lot of therapy. She has BPD which a serious mental...

Haha f* you. It’s okay. I’m an @ss. Hope things work out for you brother.

I know what you’re talking about. Going against my gut feeling has never worked for me. I would recommend going and doing things that make you feel better. Eating healthy, gym, etc. Should clear up the confidence issue quite quickly.

Attraction is a grouping of things. Interestingly enough I’m listening to an audio book right now called “Atomic Attraction”. From what I can tell, it’s pretty bang on. And would recommend it to anyone that needs to bump up their attraction level a few points.

There’s lots of women out there. I don’t understand why the advice is to waste time pursuing ones that aren’t interested. If a guy is just unattractive then he needs to do something about it. Rather than continuing to do things that don’t work..

You want to decrease flakes because time is valuable. If you set aside a block of time for someone and they in turn flake on you, they have wasted your time. If a woman has a lower interest level in you then she’s more likely to flake. So lower interest level = increased likelihood of wasting...

Yeah but you still have to go through it. After you do it once or twice you learn to remain unattached. Then you get the pus.

Bro. Ask her “when are you free to get together”. Make a definite date: time, place, day. You have to choose the location to take her. So don’t go asking what she’d like to do or any of that shyt. You just choose something to do and tell her. simple as that my friend. Good luck!

What are a couple examples for a course a person can take that would offer a good opportunity to meet sexy ladies?

Trust me, I know your point, and typically would follow it. But I literally just went and did what I felt like and had a good time doing it. I’m really not that much into her. But had a fun night with her and her friend. Maybe I’ll contact in a week if I don’t hear from her between then and...

sex is the endgame. Unless you’re banging hookers there are things that lead up to that point. The purpose of @Glassguy’s post is to not waste your time and effort on girls with low interest. But instead redirecting it to girls with high interest which will then lead to the desired outcome.

this works in real life too. Sometimes I just ask a girl her name. If she tells me but doesn’t ask mine back. I just say “nice chatting with you”. And move right on to the next. Sometimes they get insulted by it but idgaf

If I fap all the time I will have problems with erection or being able to reach ejaculation. So I try not to fap more than once a week. Also keep some supermans in my bedside table, and can really lay it to a b!tch when I use them lol

Hey. Sorry I didn’t read your full post because it was too long and boring. When you work with someone but need NC to heal from the breakup, the rule is to only have contact with her when the topic is work related. The no contact rules are in the no contact thread, and working with your ex is...

I’ve been working on myself big time. I was going to follow standard protocol which is basically if she tries to change plans last minute you don’t accept + never do double dates. But I was bored. I’m pretty sure the girls friend threw about 30 shyt tests at me (which is why it’s a bad idea...

Easy answer. This is the male version of validation seeking behaviour. You’re using her, because she’s beautiful, to boost your ego. Even though she’s not compatible with your personality. She’s hot. And the sex is good. So you ignore the red flags

Anyway majorly increased my smv with girl I was going on the date with due to triangulation. She set herself up for it. Next time I see her will bang 100%