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That’swhat I’ve already been doing lol.

I feel kinda like someone’s trying to manipulate me in this situation. Never dealt with this one before. I don’t even think she’s deliberately manipulating. I think she’s just confused and afraid

So earlier she texted me. I told her that I was off to Christmas dinner. Nice hearing from you. Chat later. Then she starts texting me again about half an hour ago. I asked her what she’s doing tomorrow. She says shopping. I asked her if she wants to meet up for drinks in the evening...

Well my life is definitely way busier than hers. I think she’s trying to get me to chase her and throw me into her orbit.

Just edited original post. The last three times I asked her out she agreed then cancelled plans (with a reasonable excuse) but no offer to reschedule.

I know this HB8. Hooked up with her a bunch of times before. Now it seems that she just wants to be pen pals?? Lol. She initiates texting everyday but seems to have no interest in meeting up. I’ll shoot 2-3 messages back and forth. Then tell her I’m going to do xyz, chat later. Later on...

I’m going with one who has psychosis. Lol. But no seriously. Sounds like a basketcase to me

Initiation is suggestive of interest but not necessarily. If a girl is bored she may be sitting at home texting and enjoying the validation she receives from all the guys texting with her. IMO the best gauge for interest is her willingness to make plans and meet up with you. Once together...

Doesn’t matter. If she does have a boyfriend and she’s lying obviously doesn’t like him so much. You need to tighten up your game a bit because it sounds like you’re chasing her too much. I think what you need to do is let her do more of the initiating. When she does, make dates to spend...

Is it possible for you to make them perceive something as validating when you aren’t actually validating them? In order for this to be true. They’d have to experience something in the moment that they interpret as validating only to discover later on after you get what you want that it’s...

i’m sorry I have to agree with some other posts. That’s way to long to read. You’re confused because you don’t understand women. I saw a couple good responses already in here. But you have to understand that women interpret events in the moment based on how they feel. You must’ve tried to...

I go through this situation all the time and it goes something like this: boy meets girl. Boy and girl flirt. Boy and girl make out. Boy and girl have sex. I find out the woman is in serious committed relationship. Lol. After all the girls that I banged who never mentioned they have...

When I take a chick out on a date I fcking pay. I don’t give a fck if someone thinks they should make her pay. Most chicks you take out on a date, and show them you’re cheap, you won’t be getting a second. The man is the provider. This video is a different scenario entirely. The girl bought...

Your AMG Benz is a pos lol. You watch too much Jersey Shore man. You were upset cause he messed your hair? You probably loved that he messed your hair and want him to do it again later in bed. That’s why you waited out front from him. :lol:

It’s reciprocity. She got him something of value first

Well if she could buy him a Rolex she could’ve taken that money and put it towards her student loan. A possibility is that it’s a very low interest loan and made financial sense for her to maintain her liquidity and use her money for other things.

Assuming this is real: I think not a betabux. She has money and bought him a watch that I figure costs over $10k. He wanted to do something nice back for her and paid off her debt. They both have money. If the situation were. She’s his girlfriend that never does anything for him. And he...

Also, it’s a spectrum disorder. So it’s not uncommon for women to have traits. What’s less common is when they have a massive number of them. For example, being suicidal, threatening suicide, etc is a BPD trait. But just because someone does that isn’t enough to mean that they have BPD. And...

The one I was dating is diagnosed BPD. She told me that when I started dating her but I didn’t know what it meant and just ignored it. I found out lol.

Stop talking to her on the phone! Let her get in touch with you. when she does set up a proper date (time place day). If she says no, tell her you’re busy and have to go but if she changes her mind to get in touch. move on and go live your life.