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Yeah, exactly this. 3 is manageable, yet annoying to deal with for a long period of time. I'm not a fvcking around sort of dude, I prefer LTRs if I can find a suitable woman. Spinning plates is only for the transition period, while looking for the best options.

Attention is one thing. Interest in more than a hot body is another. The women I dated that were close to 10's didn't have many relationships in the past and were usually afraid to get involved physically and emotionally. I only speak from experience, maybe from a macro point of view things are...

The interested ones usually make it pretty obvious.

Well that's a rather depressing point of view. Some women will be genuinely be interested/attracted by you at any point in your life, as long as you're not at the bottom of the dating pool. I'm not saying they'll always be as you'd like them to be but...

The easiest way to get over this fascination with beautiful women is (if they're single)to realize that they carry a lot more baggage than an average girl. She's not a super-human, she might have a lot of problems or she might even have less serious offers from guys because they're intimidated...

You did the right thing. Also, I don't know why some guys get so annoyed when women give them the silent treatment. If you don't talk to a woman, she'll be in pain. Words are like rewards for them. But at the end of the day, most guys just want to relax in peace. I do understand disrespect tho.

Everyone knows SoSuave is a support group, duhh.

1. The only time when I idealized a past relationship was when I was single and not meeting women, getting thirsty. The important thing to remember is that the relationship broke for a reason. Living in the past is both depressing and stopping you from seeing what is in front of you right now...

The fact that no one likes to admit is that seduction and frame are things you don't only develop, but ALSO MENTAIN. Yeah, we all hope things are gonna work out magically without much effort, but it's unrealistic. In my opinion, frame is more important once you're in a relationship. You have to...

This is a better tip than the OP :lol: On: I think sexualising everything is counter productive. You should only escalate at certain times, otherwise it looses the effect and you seem desperate.

No. Better to teach them when they're young. Old chicks-no new tricks.

The girls made me an offer and I didn't turn it down. But I might just let it fade away, since it doesn't work towards my current goals. One of them is really attractive, the other one is ok, but I don't think I'm gonna do it just for the achievement. I'd rather keep looking for just one quality...

Honestly, smaller dudes can still get women if they're doing well in other departments. And tall guys have other problems as well. I know it's annoying that height is not really something you can change after a certain age, but that's no reason to pursue women. The main problem is a statistical...

I guess it was similar before, I just didn't notice it so clearly. You just start to see desperate women everywhere so that opens your eyes to it. Plus, being 28, I'm around women getting closer to "the wall", which provides more anxiety for them, I guess.

6'2 or 188 cm Not really a Chad, top 15-20% in looks maybe, probably with some natural charm, so not really Chaddish I guess.

Sometimes things are good and you want to share it. Sometimes they go terribly wrong and you feel like sharing it. As long as this might help someone at any moment in their life, I'll keep writing sh1t down. It's our way of giving something in return for the value we get from this community.

Also, i think "Longest amount of time it took you NOT to fvck her" would probably be an interesting discussion as well.

The most was a couple of months if I remember correctly. But we were both virgins, before 18 and living in different cities, we met 3-4 times in 6 months. As I got older, lays were increasingly easier to get. Up to the point where you pretty much do it on the first/second date and you almost...

Get your goals written down for the week/month. It helps a lot. Make an XP system if it helps, like 20 points for not masturbating all week, 5 points for every workout and so on an so forth, and make a goal of 100 points for the week. See if that helps. Also, it seems that a lot of your energy...

You don't have brothers or sisters, do you? Stop watching p0rn and sabotageing yourself with fked up fantasies. Get something real.