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To the younger guys on this forum struggling with women I just wanted to say: don’t lose hope. Invest in yourself during your teens and early 20s and getting women will be infinitely easier as you get into your mid-to-late-20s.... dating today as compared to when I was 18 is like playing tennis...

Wtaf…? Must be trolling

my worry with @Chowdah approach is exactly what you mention @2Rocky, that they’ll come back around at another time. I know myself well enjoy that if they catch me on a slow day I’ll be inclined to have them over and I’m back into it. Appreciate the advice from both of you. I think I’ll try one...

Would appreciate advice from members who have done this in the past, successfully. I always just let things fade out, but I am actually getting stressed from the time commitment demanded by some of my plates and want to reduce my plate count to 2, maybe 3 max. These girls are all very sweet and...

Atom Smasher made a good post on this recently. You simply don’t. Go for women that are interested in your and you’ll be fighting them off like flies

women are crazy hot. They are all over the balkans. Go to Zagreb. Dubrovnik is good for a day but then there’s nothing more to do there. Split is great for parties. drop me a pm if you want further details, I’m originally from the area

Very well put

Appreciate the advise everyone! I think I’ll play the “I am not looking for something serious RIGHT NOW” card and add that I enjoy seeing the person and would like to see where it goes. Dodging the exclusivity chat is the challenging one and that’s where I think girls will leave. Although I...

I have been back into the dating game for 2 months to this date, and I am having a lot of trouble keeping women on the “non-exclusive” / fun trail. They all want LTRs / exclusivity quickly and I am certain it is due to the vibes I give off. I am wondering if anyone can provide their two cents...

Thanks guys, I appreciate your advice. I am obviously just overthinking the situation and should follow my own advice / what used to be preached here: if she’s interested, she’s interested and she’ll make it easy for you. If she isn’t there’s no point in worrying either way. These girls are...

There is a world of good women out there. Just stay away from the ones waving their massive red flags. They’re not good for you and will make you feel like ****. I am in the top 0.1% of earners in London (UK) and I feel poor next to the girls in Mayfair dropping £1,000s on a night out, but such...

People just want to have fun. I live in Central London as well. I would break up with my girl if she put restrictions like these on me. You need to trust your girl more or find another one - this is unhealthy

Seriously?? These comments are outraged. Your GF is out with a slutty friend of hers. Yes, they will be approached, yes, your GF might have a chat with some random dudes due to her slutty friend wanting to get ****ed, but that doesn’t mean she’ll jump on a **** / **** any of these guys - a lot...

Much appreciated. One thing to clarify. So after the first day you’ll wait for them to text / reach out and arrange the second date or how do you proceed? Keen to know.

While I continue to work on my game with hotter girls (HB9+, which I still find very intimidating), I wanted to understand what kind of post date / post lay behavior you engage in and whether you have any rules to keep you grounded to avoid coming on to strong… I recently slept with two very...

honestly, this hit me very hard. A lot of truth to this.. of the dates I’ve had since joining OLD in early September, I’m getting GF vibes from everyone but one (a 22YO).. it’s like they’re desperate to lock you in and escalate sexually very quickly with the classic “I don’t want to move too...

Always appreciate your inputs, @IKO69 - well laid out and to the point. I’ll try and save a bit of money by committing to the coffee / ice cream date. In fact, I am on the Uber home right now from a girl I slept with on the 2nd date after having an ice cream date on the first. I did, however...

I appreciate the feedback - I am keen to stay single for at least a year this time, as I have a habit of getting complacent and seeing 1 or 2 girls repeatedly. @BackInTheGame78 - interesting observation on costs. I’ve definitely felt the hit to my finances over the last month and a half...

Keen to hear some of your approaches on how you manage your dates - particularly when you’re seeing multiple people at the same time. Do you have time limits for yours dates? Do you have dedicated date nights? I am finding it extremely difficult to manage at the moment… I love the excitement...