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Would I let her pay in the beginning, no. But do I expect her to make an attempt or at least utter the words out of her mouth? Yes I do. It shouldn't be that she just sits and EXPECTS that I pay for everything. I think that's the premise of my OP.

You pay for everything always with all your plates? I don’t think this is true, at least not for all women. The transaction is not money for sex, the goal should be that they like you enough to open their legs without you having to pay for everything. I think a well mannered woman should make...

Go to the gym with her and get swole

Been on three dates now, kiss closed first and got more intimacy at her place tonight after third date (not smashed yet). She shows interest, initiates text, etc. However, damn girl never offers to pay for anything. Wtf? I’m a bit irritated by this behavior. What y’all think?

Ingenious, I need to start doing that. What kind of events do you host that you're inviting these people to them? Are we just talking about social gatherings at venues with drinks or are you arranging more high profile events? Charities, galas, etc?

Out of curiosity, what kind of line of work are you in that you are giving your business cards at bars?

How long do you think it would take to befriend a bars staff and get accepted into their inner circles? If you have had better luck at working and bedding bartenders quickly then I want to know your secrets. I thought several months at the least was average.

Nah, deep tongue action on that date and when she gets sick in a few days just blame it on the weather.

There are some women who are intrinsically superior in ways to other women. When you spin plates you will discover those that are just in it for fun, those that want something from you, and the rare one that is actually a good catch. You discover that over time and as you put these women through...

Over the past one year, my friends have I have frequented a local bar in efforts of gaming the hot bartenders that work there. Even though I'm a 30+ high income professional, I dont like dating high income educated women, I prefer the 22-25 year old lower demographic girls. Over this past year...

I usually text to see if they got home safe. After that, I don't really think it matters much, I've had success with both scenarios: Women text me first and in which I text first. To be honest, in my experience, it doesn't really matter if she has high interest. As long as you aren't blowing up...

Messed up the seduction at a wedding, been trying to get drinks with this girl but she keeps answering my texts with short questions and no wiggle room. Clearly she's not interested and Im not really trying to find ways to increase it. But, thought I'd just mess with her, for Sh1ts and giggles...

I do see your point, though there has to be a middle ground no? The high income male who can game her just like the lower income bad boy? Isn't that the scheme that's attractive to them? Adopting the attractive traits those men have while also having the superior edge based on income? Feasible...

So how do I change that dynamic? They are hotter than the higher income earning women in my opinion, so that's what I want. The question really is, why does it seem easier for the lower income earning men to get those women than for someone like myself? Unless it's really all about game, but Im...

I need some opinions from others on the site. As a male in his 30s, making six figures, own house, I have easier time attracting women who are in higher earning professions such as lawyers, nurses, pharmacy, etc. However seemingly, I have much harder time attracting the 24 year old bartender, go...

Yeah, same issue. I use Bumble where girl initiates conversation, replies really quickly to my messages, and then all of a sudden just stops texting. And you're like "Wtf?"

So, we all know the cardinal rules about not texting too soon to avoid being desperate. However, we all know these behaviors are not necessary if you yourself are a busy and high value person. Question is, I am just someone who is always by their phone. I run a large company, I get emails, texts...

What's your opinion on the thought that too much talking also leads to flakes? I mean, I've had situations in where girls have just left the conversation mid-way through before I even ask for number or set up a date. Does that happen to you as well or no?

I've usually gone through spurts with online dating in the past several years. I usually go for several months where I try to spin as many plates as I can, then take a break, then come back to the game. Something strange about this time around, I've noticed an exceedingly high number of flakes...

Bare minimum for the girl or for us? I understand it's the bare minimum for us, though can you elaborate on what you mean in case you're talking from their perspective?