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Can you elaborate on this more? If I give her less verbal validation she is more likely to cheat in order to feel herself validated?

As ****ed up as it sounds, it’s just been something on my bucket list of wanting to bang another mans wife. Sounds horrible l know, but just something I wish to accomplish in this lifetime. As to why I created a thread, I wanted to see if my ability to analyze this situation was similar to how...

I’m mostly writing this to see if there was an error in my ability to pick up clues. I have a few plates on the side which keep me busy but I’m interested to see what you all think. Met this cute girl at work (I’m in a hospital, she’s a nurse) saw the ring up front, we chatted a bit and that...

Entirely possible, but the fact that it leads to that point is usually an indication that the chemistry and other attraction criteria went smoothly to end in intimacy. And I been around the block enough to feel that my skills shouldn't be an issue.

So then what to do? Because when I try to got a bit slow, I feel it ends up being awkward towards the end.

So I've always kino escalated quickly and then moved to kiss close on first date. I usually believe in that the man pushes the envelope as far as he can go until the woman objects. In the last several months, there have been several first dates where this has occurred and while physical intimacy...

Had a scenario the other day, wanted to get an opinion from the Don Juans. Matched with a cute girl off Tinder, got number fast, and set up a Brunch date. I always confirm several before and she didn’t respond. Assuming she’s a low interest ghost/flake, I forgot about her. Two days later I...

I agree with most of what you're saying, but I don't know, I feel my game just works better when I text minimally and use the phone as a means to set up the date until of course things have escalated to daily conversations.

Most people on this site know the fundamentals of texting properly: Don't be lame, dont ask mundane questions, use ****y/funny, wait just as long to reply as she does, blah blah. Unless of course you got some magical texting powers that I'm not aware of, I don't believe that it's simply that easy.

I disagree, Sometimes it's a flake, sometimes it works. Texting up until a date is also a flake. I personally feel you have more to lose by continuing to text; get the number, seal a date and if it's within 48-72 hours, text the morning of for confirmation. It's not guaranteed but I have...

What do you mean? You prefer to engage in texting up until the date? I use to do that as well before however I felt I had more flakes in that routine.

So what do you recommend? Have a back up plan (Plate or friends) ready and just roll to the venue at the set time? See what happens?

My style is I usually like to build some rapport via person or text until a set time and date for the first meet up is established. If the first date is within 3-4 days, I do not text the girl until the day of to confirm. If its more than 4 days, I'll throw a mid-week text to just catch up/ see...

If he had the slightest game he would be slaying younger women left and right due to his celebrity status. So yes, I would assume that he would have even the slightest most average game. And if he did, he should be in mountains of poon due to who he is. That’s why it’s difficult for us to...

The first yes, the second I haven't smashed but Im confident it will happen soon.

Some time ago, I posted a thread in regards to a plate that things escalated but she had high end tastes and would never offer to pay for anything. I got a mixed variety of responses all from some of you saying you would always pay, that paying was no big deal, and others ranging from making her...

Hello all, I'm unhappy with my roughly 40% closing rate. Employing the teachings of Pook, I've improved my success and my overall outlook, but Im still struggling with some aspects. One of which is I have a hard time calibrating between chasing after a girl and just employing a masculine...

I've never been a big fan of letting girls choose when to meet up. I think you played it well. I would send her a text on Wednesday saying that your Friday evening is free and Im assuming you've had something in mind about what you plan to do.

Can you explain what you mean by the last paragraph? Seems I’m in a situation where the secretary at work grinded on me during holiday party and we even kissed afterwards, but has blown me off when I’ve texted her for a date. Is this common behavior in your experience?

Over the years I’ve run into an obstacle. It’s that when I am escalating my interest with a girl, and if things don’t end up well with her or if I simultaneously attempt to hit on her friend, co worker, sister, etc.. I am essentially cut off from both of them (When I say simultaneously I don’t...