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We need more details, what did you do leading up to the kiss? Any caressing, hand holding, hugging or stroking? If you did none of those then marmel is right, you failed because you did not escalate.

You sound like a dirty salesman, no offence. If anything, the only red flag here is you. Does a DJ manipulate a woman into meeting him under the pretense that her 'package' has arrived? And being vague about your intentions? You're only inviting game playing into your life because you yourself...

A simple case of failure to lead. As a man, you must be comfortable with leading and asking to get the things that you want. Never leave things up to the hands of others because you are not in control of your fate. Whenever I leave things to people to 'let me know', they never get back to me...

He's a Singaporean citizen that's still liable for our conscript military. The sad truth is that our environment and the government's lack of support for local talents drives these people into the working world or look elsewhere to reach their dreams. Its pretty sad that this kid had to fight...

The best revenge is living well.

I believe this is all just mental masturbation to make every man feel better than women have it easier in the dating game and that's the cold hard truth. Only reason why such gimmicks work is because 90% of men (including good looking guys) live in a scarcity mentality and have dismal standards...

This right here. I'm pretty happy with my health and strength levels for my size. Honestly if not for women I would be happy maintaining my current lifts. But there's also a reality that I'm not appealing to a majority of women because I'm smaller than them and this is something within my...

What about 5'8 120lbs? Its definitely skinnier than what you are used to and that's the challenge I'm facing right now

Validation. Ignore and move on, nothing good will come out of this.

Anyone noticed a correlation? I've heard stories of people bulking up and still not gaining the respect of women/men and vice versa as well. For myself personally, I've improved a significant amount in being in my masculine but there's always this gut feeling that I'm not commanding the...

Ever since I lost my V-Card, I've been in a particularly weird place and I do not actually know what this signifies. 1. I find myself to be more bold, present and usually not giving a f*ck about what I say, particularly expressing my sexual interests in women without much fear of judgement...

Go to the meeting. Have fun and put her on the backburner. Let her come to you and escalate if she does. Fvck the outcome, better yet if any other woman is DTF that night take her home instead. This woman is occupying more headspace than necessary. For your own game sake, I suggest you go out...

Very true. It comes in the form of a gut feeling that something is off but you can't exactly tell what it is unless you really analyse it further. If a girl gives me this feeling any time during our interaction its an automatic out for her.

Mum: Maybe you should try being friends first instead of asking her out so fast We all know how that works out.

My initial feeling is that she sent out a feeler text to determine whether it was just merely a pump and dump. You're coming across as too impatient like a horndog in heat so there's that as well. You may not be needy but your texts are showing that. I would have sent: Her: Ooh everything's...

I'm becoming more aware that I keep attracting unavailable girls to me, especially attached girls. I constantly have these girls flirting with me with a clear knowledge that they have a boyfriend Its like I have an inbuilt radar which attracts me to them and also they fly to me like flies is to...

The only thing you need to do is fail. Fail, fail, fail. The intuition/gut feel is something you develop with repeated personal experiences of interactions and their outcomes. That is why asking socially inexperienced people to go with their gut feel is borderline social suicide becsuse they...

That is why authenticity is needed here. Saying stuff like I'm dating multiple guys while I already assume so turns me off pretty quickly. Sh!t test or not, that's one hell of a thing to be saying and that alone makes me not take her seriously unless she can prove otherwise.

Pay no attention to this girl, apparently being a jerk the first time wasn't enough, now she's appalled as to the second guy took offense to the same damn thing. Fvcking trash.

This is what happens when an honest man meets a manipulative woman, man gets confused, girl gets confused, everybody wonders what the fvck just happened. I assume every new age girl today is seeing multiple guys at one time. However, explicitly claiming you have a roster and he's the bottom of...