What is she trying to say??

[TheGambino]

So this is about a girl Im getting in my spinning wheel.

Made moves on her at her house and she loved it but like I said earlier she couldn't get used to the fact that she was escalating with ''me''. Since I was a AFC for years with her friend and she knows the stories. Though I never talked too her so much but she saw me on school for years those days as a fun guy but total AFC with no clue about how to seduce and now she sees me totally different guy that made a 360 degrees turn around. Being very touchy, making out and go on.

So friday at the club I decided to make her jealous. She was there with her friends and some broad was riding me all day on the latin music. She saw me hitting on women and it was working so I was lucky for that night, she saw that girls gave me attention and I danced with 1 for a long time. She was being annoyed and checking me out.

Texted her that her herbalife package was delivered (was not true). She came over to my house but my mom was home this weekend (she only stays some weekends). She asked me for the package and I replied about that.. They delivered the wrong one but I decided not to tell you because I wanted to see you (with a confident smile). She was a bit surprised and telling me omg you let me come for nothing. And we talked a bit. (I was vague about my intentions next to saying I wanted to see her).

She said stuff like:
I really enjoyed our night but I sometimes let myself go and I have double feelings about what happened you already know. It's because I can't get used yet to the fact that it was ''you''.
I couldn't go for the 100% with you.. (f8cking obviousley)

and..

Me: Your just a fun girl, don't get me wrong, we had a great time.

Her: I know but you shouldn't expect much more...

Me: I don't expect anything, nothing don't get me wrong too.

Her: Okay, I got another birthdayparty I should be going.

Her: I kinda wished it never happened.

Me: Don't be overreacting, *kiss on the cheek.

Her: Come to me monday, give me the package im at home 22.30 after working out, you come in, we have fun, we have drinks but don't expect more too happen okay..

Me: ye sure with a big smile.

This whole conversation I was smiling, laughing, and flirting with my body and face and she was glancing too.

I know these are redd flaggs but Im going to escalate again monday if she really refuses I drop her as. Is this ASD? Mixed feelings? Or really uninterested or is she fishing if Im still an AFC that is in love again (lmao never).

I have to tell you that I made her *** with my fingers, she loved the kissing, she cried on my shoulder for being ''used by pump and dump guys'', I went down on her and she massaged me.

 

[marmel75]

This sounds like some high school sh!t.

Your mistake is you care way too much too soon with these chicks...in every post it's like you are obsessing over seeing them again. They sense it, which is why the same thing keeps happening.

 

[ThePasses]

I'm with Marmel. You are making this come off as some little kid typa deal the way you type about it. It really isn't that serious. When you are around her again try to hit it and if it doesn't happen, give her the supplements and then stop dealing with her.

I wanna know though, why did you lie about her package arriving when it didn't? I mean, I know why you did but I want you to tell me. And why are you going down on chicks on the first night that didn't do anything to your d**k?

 

[Konada]

So this is about a girl Im getting in my spinning wheel.

Made moves on her at her house and she loved it but like I said earlier she couldn't get used to the fact that she was escalating with ''me''. Since I was a AFC for years with her friend and she knows the stories. Though I never talked too her so much but she saw me on school for years those days as a fun guy but total AFC with no clue about how to seduce and now she sees me totally different guy that made a 360 degrees turn around. Being very touchy, making out and go on.

So friday at the club I decided to make her jealous. She was there with her friends and some broad was riding me all day on the latin music. She saw me hitting on women and it was working so I was lucky for that night, she saw that girls gave me attention and I danced with 1 for a long time. She was being annoyed and checking me out.

Texted her that her herbalife package was delivered (was not true). She came over to my house but my mom was home this weekend (she only stays some weekends). She asked me for the package and I replied about that.. They delivered the wrong one but I decided not to tell you because I wanted to see you (with a confident smile). She was a bit surprised and telling me omg you let me come for nothing. And we talked a bit. (I was vague about my intentions next to saying I wanted to see her).

She said stuff like:
I really enjoyed our night but I sometimes let myself go and I have double feelings about what happened you already know. It's because I can't get used yet to the fact that it was ''you''.
I couldn't go for the 100% with you.. (f8cking obviousley)

You sound like a dirty salesman, no offence. If anything, the only red flag here is you. Does a DJ manipulate a woman into meeting him under the pretense that her 'package' has arrived? And being vague about your intentions?

You're only inviting game playing into your life because you yourself are playing games with this woman. Which is way she couldn't go 100% with you because she senses subconsciously you're one of those pump and dump guys, if dudes here can detect the lack of incongruency going on here its without doubt you're setting off her alarm bells.

You got more work to do than just fvcking chicks.

 

[pyros]

Just for the record: if you do a 360º turn, you end up in the same place. So I guess you meant a 180º turn. lol.

 

[MrWood]

She asked me for the package and I replied about that.. They delivered the wrong one but I decided not to tell you because I wanted to see you (with a confident smile). She was a bit surprised and telling me omg you let me come for nothing. And we talked a bit. (I was vague about my intentions next to saying I wanted to see her).

you have proven that you lie, and in a creepy way. She is now seeing what your next creepy move will be... she is looking for more of YOUR RED FLAGS.
I have all the confidence in the world that you will fvck this up beyond recovery with her and anyone within her/yours social circle

IMHO already have.

You are spinning your own hamster

 

[MrOctober]

I don't know about the whole package thing...

You don't wanna put yourself in a situation where you come off desperate to just be in her presence. I don't do favors unless they earn it. If she's blowing me / riding me then yea lets get you some package delivered or something but.. No favors until she smashes.. Never contact her let her do that. Let her wonder. You can always say too much. You never can say too little.

 

[TheGambino]

you have proven that you lie, and in a creepy way. She is now seeing what your next creepy move will be... she is looking for more of YOUR RED FLAGS.
I have all the confidence in the world that you will fvck this up beyond recovery with her and anyone within her/yours social circle

IMHO already have.

You are spinning your own hamster

You don't know sh1t that's for sure.

If I would, why would she invite me over in her house again. Why does she want the package if she doesnt want nothing from me? A girl will never invite a guy to her house if she wasnt interested.

 

[TheGambino]

I'm with Marmel. You are making this come off as some little kid typa deal the way you type about it. It really isn't that serious. When you are around her again try to hit it and if it doesn't happen, give her the supplements and then stop dealing with her.

I wanna know though, why did you lie about her package arriving when it didn't? I mean, I know why you did but I want you to tell me. And why are you going down on chicks on the first night that didn't do anything to your d**k?

I was planning on f8cking her in my crib. I went down on her because she was horney and wet. I like doing it and I enjoyed it.

 

[marmel75]

I was planning on f8cking her in my crib. I went down on her because she was horney and wet. I like doing it and I enjoyed it.

And what did you get out of it?

 

[marmel75]

You don't know sh1t that's for sure.

If I would, why would she invite me over in her house again. Why does she want the package if she doesnt want nothing from me? A girl will never invite a guy to her house if she wasnt interested.

Why ask for advice then if you don't want to hear what we have to say? You have been told pretty much the same thing from 5 or 6 different people.

This is going to lead to her toying with you to get your hopes up and praying she gets to see the look of desperation on your face when you go for it and she shuts you down, so she can tell all her friends about it and they can all laugh about it.

I'd put your odds of banging her at about 3%

 

[TheGambino]

Ill

Why ask for advice then if you don't want to hear what we have to say? You have been told pretty much the same thing from 5 or 6 different people.

This is going to lead to her toying with you to get your hopes up and praying she gets to see the look of desperation on your face when you go for it and she shuts you down, so she can tell all her friends about it and they can all laugh about it.

I'd put your odds of banging her at about 3%

Ill hope you guys are being real.

Ill go there. Give her the package, act casual fun and bail within 30 minutes.

 

[Serenity]

I'll agree with the majority here, I don't see a happy ending here. I mean she said straight out she doesn't want pump and dump guys, which you know you are. So if you do fvck her you know you won't stay, you know you'll be another one of the guys she hates. So you will have broken it beyond repair which may harm your reputation.

Trying to play the role of being into her gets you stuck in a web of lies. When that bubble bursts you'll be in for some evil b!tch sh!t if you're really unlucky. Nobody likes being betrayed and played games on.

 

[MrWood]

@TheGambino

We are actually trying to help you. How can you get a clue that some advice is on target?
refer to what I call the "like ratio"

 

[cola]

I dont think you realize how creepy you look to this girl and anyone she decides to tell the story to.
The package fake out was reaaally creepy bro.. like who does that? She handled it well. Do you know how pissed Id be if someone wasted my time like that? Then the "Wrong package, decided not to tell you" was cringeworthy..
I can just imagine the way she described that to her friends and made you sound like a grade A creep.. you know girls exaggerate **** so bad

Hope it doesn't sound like im coming down on you too hard, sometimes when you lack experience you cross the line of bold move vs creep .. its a very thin line...

 

[TheGambino]

I dont think you realize how creepy you look to this girl and anyone she decides to tell the story to.
The package fake out was reaaally creepy bro.. like who does that? She handled it well. Do you know how pissed Id be if someone wasted my time like that? Then the "Wrong package, decided not to tell you" was cringeworthy..
I can just imagine the way she described that to her friends and made you sound like a grade A creep.. you know girls exaggerate **** so bad

Hope it doesn't sound like im coming down on you too hard, sometimes when you lack experience you cross the line of bold move vs creep .. its a very thin line...

Hmm aight. So what would you do? She invited me over to bring the package tonight. No moves?

 

[marmel75]

Hmm aight. So what would you do? She invited me over to bring the package tonight. No moves?

What's done is done, you already came off looking bad, can't change it. Go for it I guess...but don't surprised if you get shut down

 

[TheGambino]

What's done is done, you already came off looking bad, can't change it. Go for it I guess...but don't surprised if you get shut down

Yup your right. Didn't try anything. I came off cool, fun and bold. Didn't make any moves. She said stuff like, i didn't want it to happen. I don't see you as relation ship material in other words. But she wanted to know who i was dating and who the chick was i was dancing with. If I saw any other Girls. And that she loved what happened but that she already explained why it shouldn't happen. I was very vague and calm and smiling the whole time. Gave her the package chilled for 40 minutes and told her I had to leave. I explained myself too for saturday that my phone was dead and that i slept, forgot to text her. When i left she looked sad and kept talking in her front yard to me.

Keep in mind

Her friends prolly told her don't fuk with him.
Hes playing with you.

She knows i see different Girls and she got pumpdumped in the past.

I told her she was some what special in other words to calm her asd.

I have to keep in touch for the herbalife thing now. Help her use the products and call her sometimes.

 

[MrWood]

So this "package", was actually Herbalife, that she had already paid for?

you seriously need to get a clue in your interactions and others responses
MHO: creep in a bad way and the feeling that this is not your first experience with this type of reaction from girls

Likely you are an above average good looking guy, that gets the interest. Whatever else you do appears rushed, pressed and un-thoughtful to others
Prolly takes them abit of time and interaction with you to actually realize this, which you interpret as interest...

I would like to think I am wrong, but I bet this is a very familiar scenario with you and interactions with women...

 

[TheGambino]

Its a free try out package. I don't know bro.. i don't. Ive had lots of situations where Girls were all over me after s3x and they would ben in my spinningweel for a long time but I don't post about Girls that i f3ck without issues.

Remember this chick from the thread. I was a big aFC for years with one of her best friends very desperate. Even fought her bf 7 years ago in a club over her, this chick prolly knows that. I never succeeded to f8ck her. They cant see me as a player and they are prolly shocked about the this events with their best friend (the girl this thread is about).