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    The dreaded Maybe Date

    actually i should clarify here that I was being sarcastic and she knew that (I inserted a playful emoticon to that effect). That beside the point though and I've noted all your suggestions. To be honest, I'm currently in the frame of mind where I'm not really that bothered about whether...
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    The dreaded Maybe Date

    Ok guys, I’m completely flummoxed with this broad and could use some opinions here haha. Met her a little over a month ago on a cold approach where I walked up to her in the middle of the street and got her number. Our interaction was extremely brief (30-40 seconds) as she was in a hurry. So I...
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    Tips for maintaining self control

    For those of you who find it hard to be indifferent or not overanalyze and deconstruct every single thing a girl says, here's something I learned relatively recently that will serve you well. HAVE ZERO EXPECTATIONS What causes us to lose our frame and become supplicating minions to women...
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    Newbie’s read please - So Your Golden Girls just had an unexplained mood swing ?

    That in all likelihood is probably what's happening to me right now haha. I've taken a backseat to another girl that she's into (Bi) and the level of enthusiasm has gone from sizzling hot to stone cold. Time to go cold turkey and salvage what's left of my self-respect. Let's see how she...
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    Is this my GF's way of saying "It's over"?

    You definitely need to give her some space to put things into perspective (in the process realise how incredibly DUMB a reason this is for getting pissed off). The thing I've learnt about girls is that when they're mad at you, you'll only aggravate them if you press further. At the same time...
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    Is this my GF's way of saying "It's over"?

    Wow. No offence but that's without question one of the dumbest reasons to get mad at your bf. First of all, you need to accept that you've done absolutely nothing wrong to begin with. If anything, it was just an accident and her reaction to it was completely off-base. Apologising to her was...
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    Tips for maintaining self control

    You're very welcome! We're all in this together and it's all thanks to you guys that I'm starting to shed the 'Betaness' in me. Just to give a better idea of what works and what doesn't. Here are some examples of text conversations I've had from my past experiences: 1. What to do Her...
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    Tips for maintaining self control

    Hey guys, I'd like to preface this post by stating I'm no expert by any means when it comes to seduction or courting women. As a Beta and soon-to-be aspiring Alpha, I've had my fair share of rejections and misfires in the past with women. With that being said, I have learnt a great deal in my...
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    Rebuilding attraction and going from FWB to LTR

    Thanks for the quality advice dude! That was exactly what I needed to hear as its high time someone knocked some sense into me haha. So yeah no worries man, not harsh in the slighest! :) As you can tell from the length of my post, I have severe oneitis with this girl Granted, she has...
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    Rebuilding attraction and going from FWB to LTR

    hey guys! Been lurking around these boards for quite some time now and was wondering if I could get some advice on a tricky situation I'm in at the moment. So my dilemma concerns this girl (Girl 1) I met a while ago (3 months to be exact) at a party. I wasn't particularly keen on her...
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