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And yes @Jesse Pinkman , you are just discovering a simple principle of supply and demand I see. The dating market is no different than any other market, it just has different constraints and parameters dictating its behavior. The less supply there is, the more demand there will be for that...

Blackpill mindset is not useless, nor is red pill. Bluepill is perhaps the most useless. If you are not aware of the blackpill, you may give up too early when you realize that the red pill strategies you are applying are not yielding results. The black pill will give you a deeper understanding...

Go on wikipedia, search the central limit theorem, and you will realize that niche maxing is no more a statistically probable course of action than any other maxing. You will not be getting laid easier. You only will, if and only if, you are amorphous with your niches, therefor you are not...

Most of the guys who "self-improved" from incels to "slayers" did the customary +1 point boost by maxing out everything else they can. It is almost impossible to level up more than this. They already had the baseline attributes to do well with women, but just had to fix some easily correctible...

I get your point. But do you understand what I am trying to say? Even if you try to niche max, it is only an illusion that you have a competitive advantage. Because within your niche the same bell curve distribution still applies. Plus, your potential pool of candidates (women) is also...

I mean, idk, I think most people are way more open to options when it comes to hair color vs dating other races. This would be like picking if you prefer different flavours of mozarrella on a pizza vs choosing to eat a salad vs pizza for dinner. Nevertheless, optimizing a niche is good advice...

Dude, that isn't a good comparison with all due respect. Interracial dating is much different than a girl preferring blonde hair vs brown hair on a guy. Niche maxing is more in the sense of mutual hobbies/interests. Like, some girls like rocker guys/music guys, not office workers. Some are very...

@CornbreadFed can just post a picture of a 5, and then an 8, and we can do some mental gymnastics of what cosmetic procedures would have to be done for that transformation to occur.

I see a ton of guys that work out in the gym, but with clothes on they look like they don't even lift. Many guys would need to get very expensive hair transplants to fix their receding hairlines and bald spots that young women mostly find big turnoffs. Many guys just don't have the facial...

@BPH That is why I would advise you to perhaps re-evaluate your stages and consider wisely the opportunity cost of what your current decisions lead to versus what will be available when you are older. Things are not like the red pill manosphere claim, man's value is not a linearly increasing...

Kudos that you overcame challenges and leveled up. You'll see though that just like in other facets of life, leveling up is logarithmic in progress. After a certain point, things become very, very incremental at best, and stagnant if not depreciating as the norm, particularly as we all succumb...

Everyone has these goals, but over time you realize what the market offers in 2024 and realize how much of an uphill battle it is. Of course I want you to succeed and not settle. I don't think this is a zero sum game where your win is my loss. But until you have actually started seriously...

The thing these guys don't understand is basic statistics. If everyone improved as much as they possibly could you would still have everyone distributed by a bell curve. And if they understood the central limit theorem then things would be even clearer.

What are your goals? Do you want a wife and kids?

Self improvement has its limits. There seems to be a subset of guys here that think unsuccessful people are unsuccessful just because they are lazy. If they were determined enough, they could do anything. Frankly this is just untrue. The human mind for almost all of us has a finite capacity...

Hair transplants have come a long way in 2024, I would look into it if I were you. Yes, it will be expensive if you do it at a good European clinic and not in turkey, but it could be a game changer.

I am starting to question how much many want an exclusive long term relationship. Think about how much you are willing to sacrifice when you really want something. How much effort you are ready to put in. Do you see these women putting in this amount of effort for something that, to me only in...

Certainly. A lot of extremely flawed messengers that corrupt the whole message. That's why I believe first and foremost an individual should study the matter independently and find if it has any substance to it, rather than listen to some hypocrite on a soapbox.

Really, the breaking point is having children. Many women do not want to be mothers anymore. Once this is eliminated, so is the hard reality of the biological wall, because many women will still want to date women well into their 40s assuming they keep themselves in good shape. Those that do...