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The problem with the whole “Women peak at X, and men peak at Y” is then logically X aged women would be MOST drawn to men at or close to age Y. After all, we know women don’t date down. Women at the peak would understandably want men at the peak. So it implies that say 22 yo women would...

There are some gurus that talk about the importance of “getting out of your head and into your body.” They might be on to something, but I don’t know enough about it to have an opinion.

Nice used to just mean pleasant. Nothing more nothing less. Then it somehow got twisted into something bad as if every nice person has an ulterior motive.

While it’s not ideal to be a people pleaser, the nice guy does have at least strength: empathy. It can be a useful tool as long as you learn not to let others take advantage of you or guilt trip you. As a nice guy myself, I say keep it but make a few adjustments. It would be very difficult...

No problem. Interesting topic. Nothing good comes from neuroticism. I can’t think of a single advantage. Being a bit cautious or slightly inhibited is probably a good thing. But too much inhibition could hold somebody back from success. Too low inhibition could be quite risky.

Low inhibition and high neuroticism seem conflicting. Do you mean low inhibition and low neuroticism?

Haven’t been out a while. Do most bars have at least one type of non-alcoholic beer available?

I’m surprised Sara hooked up with Marco. When I first read that Marco was an intelligent nice guy, my first guess was he’d be a good friendzone guy for long talks instead. But we know nothing about Marco’s looks. Maybe he is better looking than we thought.

Year-round Short King Spring lol.

What did you drink when out at bars that’s not alcohol?

Exactly. For better or worse, the longer the dry spell, the more a guy will focus on platonic or professional interactions with women.

She friendzoned the loyal guys. So what’s left? Disloyal guys.

My regular hygienist is good company almost like a friend (even though I know it’s just professional courtesy). She is attractive ngl. But nice and super chill. She usually rambles on about hubby, her kids and vacations lol. But it’s better than being dry and all business, which is what I’d get...

I don’t like it when they swap hygienists. I get anxious going to the dentist, but keeping the same hygienist helps a lot. My regular hygienist is super cool. She talks most of the session and jokes a lot. I only got swapped out to another hygienist maybe twice in 5 years. When my...

RP guys focus on muscle because it’s easier to control on older guys than younger pretty boy features such as facial aesthetics and hair.

Humble people have a very hard time acting fake. It goes against their nature.

Understood. I think most guys would miss it if they had steady hot sex that just ended. I’m not questioning that at all. I was just implying that, if a dry spell goes on too long, a guy could end up getting too comfortable without it. Obviously not good lol. So it’s two very different...

I got invited to a singles event by a female friend from way back. It was at an art gallery. The event was so so. The next day she told me a bunch of the attendees went to a bar as an after party afterwards. She ended up leaving with some dude from there. I didn’t care that she hooked up. But I...

It’s been so long that I barely miss it.

It better be very speedy. No time to waste.