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I completely relate to the OP's problem because I have the same one. Guys like us have no problem talking with people, being funny, getting to know them, and getting them to like us, but that's the extent of it -- just being cool with people. I've read tips like "talk to the girl like any other...

Your thoughts make sense @Amante Silvestre, especially on how you used to work the clubs. I'm thinking that a club is a fast version of life where you're bouncing around between "plates", building social proof with everyone you talk to, and bumping into the women towards the end "by chance"...

Set 1, Approach 0 (bachelorette group in Miami club, HB 7-9) While out clubbing in Miami with the bachelor group, my 3 "targets" were this half-Korean girl and 2 white city girls. I was dancing, joking around, and kinoing their shoulders, their lower back, and pulling them closer to me. They...

Why am I making an approach journal?: I've spent too many hours reading through interesting yet pessimistic threads that revolve around the plight of being a minority, today's terrible dating market, and other yadda yadda. I was doing that rather than taking real action. When going out, I'd...

I was curious with the same question too. I agree that guys shouldn't get hung up on numbers and percentages and instead focus on the bigger picture of improving themselves. But I think getting an idea of how the best guys do overall gives you perspective on where you're at. The sobering...

Appreciate everyone's input. I'll practice being bolder when escalating and keep the conversation on her. For the 1st girl, Monica and I were sitting side-by-side at the bar. I was touching her arm and back when it made sense in the conversation and she didn't react. How would you guys keep...

The thing is I'm not using much energy on women at all. I've done the whole "be laid back and just have fun" thing, but it's never really changed my dating situation. I just ended up having fun with my friends. That's it. Wasn't trying to write a book so my bad about the length. I tend to write...

I've been on and off here for a long time. After discovering this site, I've become much more social, determined, and self-aware. My b*llsh*t tolerance is low through my own experience with women and hearing members' stories here. I also stay true to who I am and don't bend myself just to fit...

I work 50+ hours per week because I have to deal with overseas contacts in Asia. I have a list of tasks and goals I want to get done, but I barely make a dent in them because of work stress. I constantly feel like I'm on call by day and night. In the back of my mind, I know I need to force in...

I've never encountered a word that specifically describes something that's water damaged. The closest word I know is irreparable. It basically means the item is damaged to the point where it's impossible to fix. Hope this is the word you're looking for.

Thanks for the great feedback, everyone. Yeah I know my write-up was long and no girl deserves this, but I wrote this up more so because I was curious what was going on in her head. I'm aware of the common knowledge here that if a woman wants to be with you, she won't give BS excuses about...

The 5th Hangout (The Lay) It's about 1.5 months since I started my new job in West LA. We haven't texted each other since our 4th hangout. I text her to hang out on Saturday after her shift and she says yeah. When I get to her restaurant, she's hanging out with her friend and I say hello. I...

Hey guys, I tried to keep my story with this Latina girl as short as possible. But, I felt that I had to include my previous hangouts with her to give you clarity on the emotional dynamics. Please help me assess her. I'm confused and I wonder what I need to do next to keep nailing her. Maybe I...

Dude are Iron Grip condoms for twigs and pinky fingers?! You need a condom to fit, not suffocate your one-eyed trouser snake. I've done extensive research back a few years ago and tested a bunch of them out. I don't what new condoms are out today, but I find that the Japanese ones are the best...

Are you getting drunk off of one Coors Light (4.2%) or a triple IPA craft beer (10%+)? Alcohol percentage is one factor and drinking on an empty stomach is another. There's a ton of factors. Now, if you're getting really buzzed or drunk from ordinary, non-craft beer, then that's a warning to get...

Must be a hormonal thing. My ex got horny when she was on her period too. After doing it twice, I decided that I didn't like it and that was even with a condom on because: It was gross and left a red mess with a splash radius around her hips so unless you have a towel under her, you have some...