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  1. GrowingPains

    Journal: Seeking strong inner game

    Inner game is discipline. In the moments where the self is weak, you must be able to overcome self. Discipline is the vehicle which enables you to do so. You will want to double text. You will want to get mad at her when she is yelling at you and wrongly accusing you. You will want to chase a...
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    The Greatest Advice to Myself. [Signing off]

    The first expensive cologne I ever bought was Tom Ford, Noir Extreme. I love it. The lady that sold it to me explained that fragrances smell different on your skin than they will on your clothes because of your body heat. So try your fragrance on both. Also let it sit on your skin for a minute...
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    Date next weekend 55 miles away. What to expect?

    Women flake for multiple reasons. 1. They aren’t that into you. 2. Something came up that they’re more interested in (could be another date or something with their friends) 3. You turned them off 4. They’re insecure so they replaced you with another date Whatever the reason it all boils down to...
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    Date next weekend 55 miles away. What to expect?

    Have you considered that not doing so shows them they have no power over you? And perhaps being shown that they have no power over you will change their behavior in the future?
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    Date next weekend 55 miles away. What to expect?

    That’s not an answer to my question, but alright. I believe we’ve all heard this before. We are aware of what you think of your situation and with all due respect I think we would rather not hear it anymore. More direct answers to our questions will help you get the results you want. Anyways...
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    Date next weekend 55 miles away. What to expect?

    Checking out the flea market beforehand is a solid move, BG. You are setting yourself up to not be disappointed by the outcome of your trip this way. If the date doesn’t go well, who cares, you got to check out the flea market. If she doesn’t show, who cares, you got to check out the flea...
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    Date next weekend 55 miles away. What to expect?

    3 or 4 hours beforehand. ‘Hey, see you in a bit’ ‘Got a reservation for us at X place at Y time. Will you be ready by then?’ (If you’re having drinks at a restaurant) ‘Let’s get this party started’ ‘Hey, headed your way. Lemme know where to pick you up’ Call and chat for a few minutes. Then...
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    Going to meet that cute 49 yr old teacher tonight. How to keep frame?

    What does your ideal woman look like? Just curious.
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    Going to meet that cute 49 yr old teacher tonight. How to keep frame?

    Thats a great idea, BG. I think you should move on, too.
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    100 Approach Journal

    Mick Jagger is an interesting looking character. [13] - The Italian Seen this girl around the gym a couple times. Never crossed paths. Had to do some pull ups after I was working on back lever and the only spot was next to her doing some cable whatevers. Asked if she minded if I did pull ups...
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    Why do women, especially 35 and up like waking up early?

    You asked if I send emojis. Not gifs. Also, I don’t want a chick to think I’m cute, BG. I want her to see me as the guy she can’t wait to get home and have her back blown out by. The guy she’d swallow his nut for if he wanted her to. I’m not a fvcking teddy bear.
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    Why do women, especially 35 and up like waking up early?

    BG I do what I want. “I let my nuts hang” - Tekashi 69 No, generally I don’t send emojis to girls. I will send a wink if I say something provocative to a plate. I used a peace sign the other day. My emoji use is very limited. I will say that I like when girls use them though. A girl I am...
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    Why do women, especially 35 and up like waking up early?

    I canceled on a plate tonight because I need to get to bed early. I told her that I haven’t been sleeping a lot and I just needed to rest tonight. She sent me a get well soon gif of a sick bear. It was a nice gesture/joke. I’m gonna buy some rope to play out her fantasy of being tied up later...
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    I dare you to inspire me.

    Meanwhile Alex Honnold is doing what he loves. Inspiring millions. While you guys sit here on the internet criticizing another man’s life and his choices because it is not for you. Point of the OP was to say let’s talk about more inspiring things. We get these kind of posts every so often, I’ve...
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    Date next weekend 55 miles away. What to expect?

    No, they drive an hour to meet him. You should expect to meet her. Enjoy yourself. Have a good conversation. Laugh. Have a drink or two. See if YOU want to see Th is chick again. Expectations lead to disappointment. You are not inveted in each other enough to have expectations yet. Ironically...
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    Let’s Talk About Sex: A guide to keep 'em coming back

    Now a few words on fvcking. Since I'm going to try to be brief here, I would say that two porn stars that embody what I'm saying here are Owen Grey and Manuel Ferarra. The women in their videos are literally losing their minds and you can tell it's authentic. Now, we've done all this foreplay...
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    Let’s Talk About Sex: A guide to keep 'em coming back

    Gonna dump some thoughts about how to sex the ladies in here. Not organized. Just going for it. This ones for the fellas that want her to keep coming back and enjoy seeing her squirm, taking it from her and then giving it to her harder. Damn we giving away tips already, let’s get right in. When...
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    100 Approach Journal

    [12] - sheesh, if only... So I'm in the gym (duh) and I'm changing the rack set up from squats to bench press. I hang the clip on the rack while I'm taking the weight off. This chick swoops over and instantly snags it. So I go over, tell her I was still using it. But I'll help her look for...
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    Texting- Gauging interest level

    This is good. I feel it's easier said than done because .. well if she's hot I wanna hit it, not gonna lie to you. But I do have a lot of women available to me rn and it's a bit overwhelming. OLD, current plates, girls on campus, etc... And I need a way to filter. This is a great way to filter...
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