New Strategy
New to me anyways. So I've recently just been trying to get a rotation and bang any girl I was slightly interested in. That's not gonna work anymore. I touched on this a little bit earlier.
There are a couple reasons for this.
1. School is time consuming and difficult. It's time for me to rise out of the prison like Batman in the Dark Knight Rises. No holding back, leaping for success like my life depends on it. And in this mode, I can't be entertaining more than 2 girls. And I need girls who could damn near be my girlfriend in my rotation. I only want to be surrounded by people that inspire and support me and that I can do the same for. So the quality of my plates will have to go up. And time will be limited asf so we gotta cut down big time.
2. It's not even fun fvcking all these girls anymore. Maybe that's because they're just.. okay and not girls I genuinely desire. I mean I'm still attracted to them but obviously from the posts above I need hotter chicks. Curvy. Full lips. Sexy as hell. But intelligent. A rarer breed certainly but hey.. worth it. Im guessing anyways, maybe the grass isn't greener on the other side. We shall see, that's what the journey is about.
Changes:
There have been times where I felt like I should be screening the girl harder. Like she's not that interesting but I still hit it and try to add her to the rotation. I'll aim to limit letting these girls make it into my bed to night out. She has to excite me (qualities discussed above) to make it into my rotation.
Then the question is where will I find such women. Well, while Tinder is expedient, I have yet to meet a plate on tinder after about 30 matches (that I kept) over 4 months. This may be because they stopped responding or i just didn't match with them. Tinder is low investment so I'll start using it again soon and swipe only on profiles that I'm interested in from their pics. I used to just rapid tap that 100 and move on to the next thing. But tinder isn't gonna be the breadwinner so I need to start putting myself in situations where I can meet more people outside of my normal routine. I've had success in the gym. But too many pulls in the gym is dangerous especially if the same crowd is always there. However, I'm considering getting a membership at a local powerlifting gym because 1. There's less annoying things going on (people deadlifting at squat racks) and 2. There will be people who are clearly interested in what I'm interested in, women included. Brain blast: I'll try to spend an hour or so at least 3 days out of the week doing some low-focus task in another part of campus. Like med school library or art library. Easy way to increase opportunities to meet women. I am looking to get back into recreational sports, I'm not sure how this would help though unless there's like ex women college players because the difference in competition is just so high for men and women. Planning to go to more parties when school starts back up with the boys.
I also gotta level up myself. It's time for a wardrobe update. As I've continued my journey in style I've opted for more comfortable outfits. Less button downs, more nice fitting tshirts with a nice layer thrown over. So I'll be doing some online shopping, aiming to get lightly used things to save some money, over the next few weeks. Currently trying to buy some Adidas terrex gtx hiking boots as my rainy day shoes. They're fresh, comfortable and weatherproof. I'll find something more dressed up as well and probably a knee-length mac coat or similar for dressy days. Black umbrella with a wood handle. Ykno classy sh!t. I will try updating my accessory game as well and commit to figuring out how to cut my hair (faded) to save money and keep it fresh. Maybe I'll try a simple gold chain, my best friend be killin' it when I see em on him. New watches are in order. I'm kinda tired of my clothes anyways so it's for me mainly and the ladies will reap the benefits lol.
I'm going to really push myself to 'be myself' or rather unapologetically be my unfiltered self in interactions with strangers. My thoughts on this aren't very well developed but perhaps I'll have some soon. I think switching to screening for these high quality women will help with this in and of itself. I mean I'm pretty comfortable being myself already but it's because I know I've got girls that will fvck me. To reach the next level I gotta dig deeper and do it without any external motivation.
