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  1. GrowingPains

    She called me 'bro'..

    Facts. This is how I usually operate. I believe in this case I was a bit excited because of how attractive she was and also wasn't trying to say 'Im going to this place' because it'd seem a bit weird since it's 2.5 hours away lmao. But in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter. I...
  2. GrowingPains

    She called me 'bro'..

    Imo I did this. My response was basically "(insert city) sis". Which maybe isn't the best response, but it made me laugh. I basically just wanted to know if her saying bro was a bad thing. Guess it doesn't really matter. Yes, I realize I'm not confident enough to handle what she gave me if it...
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    She called me 'bro'..

    Yeah I met her locally. Chatted for 20 mins last weekend. And you guys are right I should avoid this mental investment. I'm not going to drive to her. Already nexted
  4. GrowingPains

    She called me 'bro'..

    Gee I thought I was overanalyzing words. How specific does it need to be? If she's interested she's interested. I did wait for her to respond. I sent that message. She sent the next message. I'm sure she understands what my slang meant. It's fine. I just responded with the location and...
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    She called me 'bro'..

    Fellas. Hit a girl up to hang this weekend. I said something to the effect of "Hey armed and dangerous (she's did MMA in high school). When are you free this weekend? There's some cool street festivals near you, we can hit them up". She responds "where at bro". My friend says to just not...
  6. GrowingPains

    100 Approach Journal

    [9] - Just another gym story Girl waves at me in the gym. I'm shook because idk who tf she is. I check over my shoulder and do the 'you talkin' to me?'. She said yeah. Somehow remembers me from a football game. Chatted her for a sec. Got her number and said let's get a drink sometime, seems...
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    100 Approach Journal

    [8] Locked eyes with this BODACIOUS ting. Hispanic. Lovely. "You're just. my. type... (you're got a pulse and you are brea-thing!)" - SAINT MOTEL Complimented her sweater and she was kind of confused. Then she realized she was wearing a sweater and said thanks. We laughed about it and chatted...
  8. GrowingPains

    Time for a break

    I find that when you remove the noise and listen to your thoughts, you learn so much about yourself. Your fears, weaknesses, doubts, and so much more comes out when it's just you listening to you. In that respect, meditation is extremely good for figuring out what the fvck is wrong with your...
  9. GrowingPains

    Smoove move

    Also good. It'sjust a voice-acticivated speaker. Why's that rub you the wrong way?
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    Smoove move

    Yo... Having an Alexa or whatever voice-activated speaker would be so smooth. Imagine walking into your apartment with a girl. Only lights that are on are the stove light and a low, warm lamp light in your room. You light a candle. While you're getting her a drink you say: "Alexa, play 007."...
  11. GrowingPains

    The conflicting voices in my head..

    Guilty as charged. Date was fine. Kissed her but couldn't get her back to my place this time anyways. Back to work.
  12. GrowingPains

    The conflicting voices in my head..

    Got a date tonight. Also got a lot of work to do. And I'm gonna get that work done. So this voice tells me, go on the date. Give it an hour and go back to work. The other voice is like 'but what if she wants to fvck.. you can't pass that up'. It's not like I'm on a dry steak or anything, I've...
  13. GrowingPains

    100 Approach Journal

    [7] Some girls in the gym today. One with her friends. One by herself. Both giving me looks. Both 6's. The one with her friends was giving me 'fvck me' vibes. But if I'm honest I was a bit unsure how to break the group. I could've talked to them about the exercise they were doing, as they were...
  14. GrowingPains

    100 Approach Journal

    Crazy to look back on this. The nervousness was so debilitating back then. I still experience a couple of the feelings but I think nowadays I'm able to put mind over matter and the nerves don't physically manifest themselves except in things like eye contact. Ik, Ik, you want some stats: I've...
  15. GrowingPains

    'She doesn't see you as alpha'

    She came over today. We fooled around, no sex. Which is fine... This time. At least things progressed. I had a good time. She said she didn't want to when I started to take her pants off. But my finger thermometer was telling me she was Little Caesar's hot 'n ready for sure. All good, I'm...
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    Texting response time

    Success.
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    Texting response time

    Lil update: she's coming over today.
  18. GrowingPains

    Should I reach out again?

    Nearly forgotten about her at this point.
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