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The context in which a "test" is being given is important. Has the man failed in his responsibility to maintain the dominant role in the relationship? Has he failed to be confident, decisive, lead, maintain boundaries, and continue on his purpose in life? If that's the case, then he needs to...

The best response is no response. Then go bang her best friend. You won't get any jealousy texts after that.

Couldn't have said it better myself. You are a man living your purpose in life. You are unfazed by any female whether they come or go, want a relationship or don't want a relationship. She is sucking you into unnecessary drama wasting your time, attention, and energy. Like Medina stated, you...

If I were in your situation, I would tell her that it's okay for her to go on a date with this guy, but that you are going to explore other options too. In other words (and you communicate this through your behavior only), you are no longer exclusive and she is no longer your girlfriend. She has...

Has daddy issues and is on anxiety meds = not relationship material You don't have feelings for her. It's simply lust and your ego not letting her go. Be grateful for the sex and time you had with her. If you want any to have any chance of seeing her and enjoying her again then go complete no...

I know it's tough and you miss her, but move on man. Life is way too short to be involved with someone that disrespects you and doesn't go out of her way to spend time with you.

It already sounds like you and her communicate WAY too much. I would pull back a little simply to change the dynamic. I'm currently sleeping with 4 women and barely communicate with any of them.

Yeah shouldn't have answered the phone. Whatever though, it's not a big deal. I would not confront her or discuss anything about this guy though. If you guys become exclusive and she is hanging with other guys then you can object to such behavior. Until then remain cool as fuk and continue to...

If she's a plate, then what she does in her free time shouldn't concern you. If you two become exclusive, then you can state boundaries. Until then, I would say absolutely nothing.

Move on. There is no making things work and getting her back etc etc... It didn't work out the first time, so why would you think it would work out a second time around? If you made mistakes in the relationship recognize them, and don't make those same mistakes again.

I crossed paths with a true BPD about 6 months ago from a dating app. I recognized the red flags early on and tried to cut contact immediately. We only went on 2 dates, but it was already too late. She stalked me and found out where I lived, where I worked, and even started calling my job asking...

You're just wasting your time that would be better spent pursuing younger women that don't have children.

BS this is Classic Gaslighting. All of this while you're sitting right there? Fuk that, I would've filed for a divorce yesterday. There is no reframe here, she's done.

Manhattan without question. I lived in NYC for 3 years in my early 20's and had a blast. There's plenty of things to do and women from all over the world. Yes it's expensive, but worth the experience of spending a few years there. Get in, enjoy it, and get out. You do have to be comfortable...

"Options breed confidence and confidence breed options." Avoid Oneitis by dating multiple women. I think the best rotation numbers around 3-4. This spaces their time apart well enough that you only see each one once every 2 or 3 weeks. Talk and text sparingly. You know you're doing it right if...

Red Flag. She's single for a reason. Probably the type of woman that end things abruptly and for no reason at all even though everything is going great. Usually these women have underlying commitment/insecurity issues stemming from childhood. Their parents raised them to believe they are...

Meh she's just looking for validation. She told you she'd reach out when the cold cleared up and never did. Enough said.

I've shared this before but a must watch for this scenario. Dumped through a text message after 2 years and not even a phone call? Move on...

I literally just went through this with a woman I was dating for the past 3 months. Everything appeared normal in the beginning, but around month 2 there started to be some major red flags. Dropping I love you's and how amazing a couple we are, asking me about other women and if I was sleeping...