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    Is it even worth to date these days?

    Yeah the first thing you should do is get back in shape by getting in the gym. Working out raises your testosterone and endorphin levels, which in turn will make you look better and feel better. Put dating on the back burner for now, and after a month or 2 in the gym get back out there in...
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    Ex messaged me 1 month after NC, need opinions

    She's fishing for your time and attention, validation... She wants to know if you're still around by pinging you and seeing if you're in standby mode eager to shower her with again, time and attention. Don't fall into her trap. She ended it for a reason. That's on her, not your problem. If you...
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    I dumped my girlfriend for her bad behaviour. She's seen with someone else 3 days after.

    You're a human being with feelings and emotions, it hurts. Accept it, process it, and move on without looking back. She's simply a low quality person and there's nothing else to say about her. Good for you dumping her, blocking her, and now moving on with your life. Find someone better and...
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    No contact works but is a dangerous tool

    If it didn't work the first time it's not going to work the second time, the third time, etc... Things ended between you both for a reason. All this back and forth between you both is nothing more than a waste of time and mental energy. Blocking, keeping track of who messages who first, and...
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    Disasterous date sequence - post-mortem analysis for next time?

    First date kiss was at second venue of the evening. Second date was dropping her off at her house.
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    Disasterous date sequence - post-mortem analysis for next time?

    We're same age and I just returned to the dating scene after taking some time off to focus on some personal things, so I know my game would be a bit rusty... So far, first dates with 2 women and both went well (make out sessions at end with plans to see them both again). My advice would be to...
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    Desperation will nuke your chances

    Every man should strive to be Stoic not only in their interactions with women, but in everyday life. The Stoic is serene & confident, acts reasonably, focuses on what he controls, unattached to external things, grateful & calm, kind & generous, takes full responsibility for his life, and...
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    Momentum in dating

    Good Post. As far as momentum and escalating towards sex which is my goal when dating a new woman, I just always make sure logistics are set in making that happen. Date 1 is public meet and greet and date 2 or 3 is always at home dinner at my place or hers. Women know what the deal is and either...
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    What do you think about this chick?

    she sounds like a total b*tch
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    Fuked up tonight

    You already apologized so don't do it or act that way again. At this point your best thing to do is nothing. Do not contact her again though. She hasn't replied so leave it at that, the ball is in her court to accept the apology or not. If you contact her again she is gone...
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    How do you maintain high number of plates?

    Right now, I have zero plates but it's by choice. My brother passed away last month and I went into monk mode focusing on myself. Historically though, I average 3-4 plates at any given time and always have orbiters hit me up through IG trying to get into my rotation. I keep interaction with...
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    Ok, why did this girl ghost?

    Opener stays the same as it's all about context. Just have her come over when your brother isn't there.
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    Ok, why did this girl ghost?

    Yeah no problem. My line filters out all the flakes and women seeking attention right off the get go. Either they are in or out, no wasted conversation in between. Leave all that kinky talk for in the bedroom or after the fact.
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    Ok, why did this girl ghost?

    Probably a fake account or she gets off on dudes thirsting over her. My opener for being direct that has worked in the past is "My place or yours?" They either ghost or are dtf and plans are made. No drawn out conversation that wastes your time. It's as direct as you can be and doesn't make...
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    B*tch made men

    bros before hoes
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    Girl I've been Dating Has a Boyfriend

    If she gets knocked up are you okay to go through paternal testing to see if you're the father? If not, then there's your answer.
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    Some opinions needed! Trying to figure out girls behavior

    Go cold and distant from her. Don't like or view any of her social media. DO NOT reply to any of her messages UNLESS it's to chill again. Act and be disinterested like she doesn't even exist anymore. That's how you play females. Cat and Mouse game
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    Alcohol and women

    Gave up drinking over a year ago, best decision I ever made.
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    Matches request additional pics b4 first date

    send her a d*ck pic
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    Girl gone very hot to very cold

    Do nothing, it's not you. She's in Med School, so that's her priority. I work in medicine and med students/residents commonly put in 80 hour weeks. The next 8-10 years of her life she's not going to have any free time.
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