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    Just got dumped by a 10/10 borderline and Im ready to redpill

    No, you immediately end things and move on without hesitation or giving it a second thought. By tolerating it, you have zero self respect or dignity (both you and your girl subconsciously know this). And, your girlfriend even bringing it up or actively talking to an ex only means that she...
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    Just got dumped by a 10/10 borderline and Im ready to redpill

    F that. You should've bailed right then and there. You had no boundaries to reinstate because they were never there in the first place. You know it and she knows it too. If i'm dating a woman and she even says the word "ex" it's immediately over.
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    I know I'll get shiit on for this post, but idc

    Sounds like she wants a relationship and isn't going to give it up anytime soon. You might tap it this weekend, but at this point is it even worth it being that she lives 45 minutes away? If it's me, I'd bail and tell her that you just don't sense a physical connection. Chicks that allow you...
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    I gave her an ultimatum, was I in the wrong?

    I dated a girl that was a IG gym workout influencer. She would post photos and videos of herself working out in skimpy outfits. The thirst on her page was unimaginable. I didn't care because I was the one tapping it. The relationship ended because she was cray cray and not a happy person in...
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    Be clear with your intentions

    I would have messaged back "that's fine, I don't know if I'm even attracted to you yet..." Agree and amplify while at the same time knocking her self value and worth down.
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    Dispelling the Myth of the Perpetual Upgrade

    But it is this simple. Now if she's delusional wanting to be worshipped by her partner then that's her problem, not mine. I will worship her body in the sexual sense to fulfill my own needs and desires, but never her as a person. Codependency and weakness go hand and hand. Men who bend over...
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    Dispelling the Myth of the Perpetual Upgrade

    Too much emphasis is placed on women and relationships in general these days. Versus what should be emphasized first and foremost which is continually striving for self improvement in every area of a man's life on a daily basis. Which includes caring for yourself spiritually, mentally...
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    Too soon to date?

    One month is such a short period of time. Just enjoy the moment and continue screening her for any possible red flags.
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    What to do when your girlfriend starts losing interest in you?

    It's a shame that she doesn't have the maturity to just end things like an adult, but instead is forcing your hand to do so. After 5 years, you would expect to have at least that amount of respect from her. That's how women are though. She wants you to end it so that she doesn't feel guilty...
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    does this happen with every relaitonship

    This is why you as a man should be taking things slow. Date, spend time together, have sex, but don't even consider a relationship with a woman you're seeing for at least a year. You barely know each other. Most people however, rush into things and go from one $hit relationship to another $hit...
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    If a woman likes you, it doesn't matter what you do!

    Men shouldn't be concerning themselves with how their woman perceives them. Too much energy is wasted on it, and at the end of the day, who really cares. If she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn't, she doesn't. As long as you're living true to yourself which is aligned to your beliefs...
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    Neediness / Calling her out

    The proper way to call a chick out is not through words, but by actions. This means withdrawing Time and Attention aka giving her the silent treatment. You are turned off by her behavior and your actions are congruent to that. Words are meaningless
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    Reason 1 for why she is forever single, haunted by the ghost of Mr. Perfect

    Be oblivious to her comparing you to other men she's dated or other prospects with a take it or leave it attitude. Remember you're screening them to see if they're worthy of your commitment. Any prospect i'm dating on the fence or lukewarm about me can immediately take a hike. If she's not a...
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    Do you guys think a 40 year old can get with a woman in her 20s?

    Yes, last girl I dated for 6 months was 21 and i'm 42
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    Do you guys reach out to a woman after sex?

    I do the same thing for the exact same reason. I recently had a fling with a 19 year old and made sure everything was cool and status quo each and every time after we slept together.
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    Pep talk needed - GF cheated

    Move on. Forget her and simply realize that she wasn't the person who you thought she was. Sure it sucks and is painful at the moment, but it'll slowly pass. If you find yourself thinking about her and missing her then just remember what she did to you. No communication period. She losses you.
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    How agreeing to time/place changes on first dates is killing your chances...

    Too much texting/explaining/asking... Should've just replied "no" to stir up her emotions and let her backpedal haha
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    Update a year later

    I read your initial post from the previous thread. She's your ex for a reason. The relationship was toxic. All the blocking, arguing, drama is a huge energy waste and time suck. Realize this now and go become a better man living a good life. Forget this Woman as she has her own issues. She...
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    need some advice from experienced DJ's

    Ignore what she says, especially her telling you she likes you. It means nothing. Women will love bomb you one second then feel differently the next.. It's just how they are. I would proceed by not mentioning the other date or telling her you like her at all. I never tell a woman I like them...
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    Didn’t escalate...

    I assume attraction while being conscious of their body language. Women will give off numerous signals to give you the green light. Just make a move and don't overthink it.
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