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yeah but the thing is low hanging fruit is way more likely to have high interest or not? that’s why I was saying that high interest shouldn’t be the only thing we should look for.

I experienced that with women but I don’t think that only is the biggest green flag. yes, if she wants you she’ll adapt but it doesn’t mean I should wife any girl that adapts in order to keep me.

She probably sensed your insecurity. In the end she doesn’t matter. It’s a numbers game. If you apply for a job they will also reject you. Maybe they won’t be that rude or don’t care at all but rejection is rejection. Do not care about a particular girl, job, appartment you want to rent or...

I agree that one needs time to heal. I had sex with 2 girls after my ex and I honestly felt really bad spending time with them. Having sex was ok but what made me feel bad was going out with them and just spending time. I felt so fcking bad and disgusted I can’t describe it. Being alone is...

Broke NC yesterday because I left things on a bad term and wanted to tell her a few things so she doesn’t have that last bad impression of me. The relationship ended because I was a major dckhead towards and then she didn’t want me back when I realized she’s moving on and that she was a good...

I showed her that I regret and I apologized. I tried to make things work but she didn’t feel it anymore. I kept doing it for weeks. she knows how I felt afterwards. There’s nothing I could and should do with her anymore right?

I dated her for 1.5 years. Im a single dad of 2. We’ve been together in another country for vacation twice. after our last trip in mid August I stopped talking to her because we had an argument during the trip. I did that every few weeks/months during the relationship. She cried and begged...

I was nice and did many nice things for my ex. I wasn’t a jerk the whole time..

@Bigpapa give me some common sense please man. Im emotional today I had a moment where I almost called her.

bro I’m very emotional today. No contact for 19 days and she clearly said she doesn’t want. It was me that destroyed the relationship but in the end her emotions changed and she got cold. I tried to get her back and apologized already. I just thought about calling her. That’s a stupid idea right ?

this hit me hard today. That’s exactly what I’ve done with my ex. yeah she was a single mother, she lied about her body count but she did everything for me. She kept tolerating it when I ghosted her and just didn’t care. In the end her emotions changed and after that i tried everything to get...

i have a decent profession and job where I can increase my salary if I keep getting better. im going to gym, thinking about joining some boxing/mma gym. My biggest problem is that I have no social circle. I have 2 friends I know since childhood and we don’t hang out much anymore since they have...

im 29. do I make the impression that I’m younger?

Day 18 Today I went to the gym and later i realized how I lost my self respect and dignity and no woman is worth losing that. I lost my manhood trying to get her back. I looked back and realized how weak I acted.. I would never act in such a way now. All this guilt, regret and attachment made...

true but do you want to settle down with such a woman? My ex was like that. She did everything to please me but I couldn’t act like she didn’t have a deadbeat drug addicted jobless ex and a double digit body count, drug issues herself etc. I liked her but also felt repulsed by her sometimes...

Day 17. Today I stayed in bed for a long time after waking up and thought about her and all the bs that happened. I was blaming myself, then justifying why I did the mistakes in the relationship and then thinking about why I did it on purpose. Then I thought fck her I did so many things for her...

It must have been hard being in hospital and feeling like **** at the same time. You’re tough and handled it well. I wouldn’t be able to act like you right away.

But it happens. You can just act like it doesn’t and convince yourself that you can do anything you want without building an attachment.

I had a lot of time think about these things lately and there is one thing men repeatedly to that is wrong. Women can build a bond very fast with a man. Men usually don’t do that. We date a woman, have sex and spend a few weeks, maybe 2-3 months together and it usually doesn’t affect us that...

Day 13 It’s been almost 2 weeks No contact. Before that I spent 2 month trying to get her back but nothing helped. Yeah I know it wasn’t the smartest thing to do but I was very attached and felt guilty since I was the one that kept leaving her during our relationship because I knew anything long...