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    Eject if you hear that.

    I went through that depression and all of the emotions. Couldn’t eat or sleep properly for weeks, cried a lot even in front of her. Chased for about 2 months and heard similar phrases from her. I had time to think about all of the good moments but also reflected my mistakes. It was me who dumped...
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    End of my 3 year relationship. Your perspective welcome

    haha you’re exaggerating a bit but I get your point. I was always good at treating girls very bad that were into me. Did that with my last girl too. If he’d always show insecurities and pick up fights with your girl or whatever, she would have a valid reason to act like this at some point...
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    End of my 3 year relationship. Your perspective welcome

    You don’t even know how he acted and what really happened.
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    End of my 3 year relationship. Your perspective welcome

    We don’t know what happened and what the argument was about. The behavior she showed is unacceptable but it also depends what you said and did if it’s salvageable or not. If you did nothing wrong and she told you all those things I think I would just ignore until she apologizes.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    had that with my ex before and my now ex. It’s normal and it’s just a phase you’re going through. There will be phases when you’re angry towards her, when you miss her, when you feel like it was all your fault or all her fault. This is not you. These are all emotions. You should feel them but...
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    Do not make yourself the victim

    Red Pill is good but I see many guys use it to victimize themselves. If you hit your girlfriend and mentally abused her you shouldn’t use RP and use arguments like „ she’s a hoe, if Chris brown hit her she’d stay“.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    She had you removed from the property? At this point don’t even think about contacting her or getting back with her. Focus on yourself and use NC to move on, not to get her back.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    that you didn’t. „Hey I’m leaving I’m almost gone! Helloooo? Can you please notice that I moved on???!!?“ she doesn’t care enough.
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    Do not make yourself the victim

    I noticed that a lot of guys including myself tend to make themselves the victim blaming the woman when they’re really not. She’s your ex? In many cases it’s YOU that made her behave a certain way but all we whine about is the person that we created. Whenever we argue with our ex or any woman...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    you could also hack her social media to check if she’s texting or fcking other guys just as you hacked and exposed members on this forum.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    do not focus on ignoring her or getting her back. I think it’s more important for us to focus on detaching. It’s a totally different thing to want a girl when you’re not attached af compared to wanting her when you’re in peace with yourself. Right now you’re in a emotional state. I’m in a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    that’s wise. Getting attached is easy, getting detached is hard af depending on the length etc. I was telling myself I’m red pill I can control myself but you can’t fight human nature. If you invest and build memories with a girl you’re playing with fire especially if she’s not a good one.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You want to do that to get a reaction out of her. I’d say don’t do that. Do nothing to manipulate her back into liking you.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Let’s be honest guys. The root of all the problems we have here is that there is always this one girl (an ex for example) we overvalue for one or another reason. It doesn’t matter if you fcked up with a girl you met a few times. If you’re a normal guy, you’ve had your experiences and been...
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    Girl wants me to pull out instead of using condoms

    Isn’t this a red flag? We just had sex 2 times and she texted me that she doesn’t like condoms. I told her that I want to stay safe and I don’t want to have children. She thinks pulling out is safe or tries to make me think it is. I’m cautious because I already have a baby mama.
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    Double digit notch count too high or what do you think?

    https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/girl-suddenly-changed-after-1-5-years.279387/ A few weeks ago i posted this thread. I went through a lot of bad days. Met 2 girls and I’m going to meet another cute one this Sunday. I banged one girl but the attachment to my ex didn’t go away. I was...
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    Do I have a mental disorder?

    I realized a behavioral pattern on myself that always seems to hurt and destroy me. I tend to have relationships with women that give me an unusual amount of validation and attention. I use this once I know they are attached even when they behave good. I make them suffer and chase me which...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    for how long have you been with her? Yeah it’s crazy how they change.
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