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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    I can get lots done with the music, but not the videos/podcasts in the background. I burned nearly a whole day last week with the videos. I end up getting annoyed with my work and then just watching the video lol.
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    Never tried ginseng. How has it improved your focus versus caffeine?
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    Kind of in a vulnerable spot right now and need some help with my finances. I previously had put myself into a really bad financial spot. Running up credit card debt, buying a bunch of stuff that I couldn't afford. I eventually realized how dumb this was, and put together a plan to start...
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    Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere! Life When Your Blue Pill Social Circle Starts Having Babies

    Oh shoot, I just opened up my Snapchat and there's one more. Another college peer engaged. Additionally, a high school classmate got engaged to her BF. This is truly the age.
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    One really important thing that I failed to mention is that it's really important that I'm working effectively and not just working hard. As in, focused work. I was having a bit of trouble the last couple of days focusing, and that set me back. I had to take a weekend day to get back on track...
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    I'm not at this point yet.. I just need more time and experience coding but I'm sure I'll get to that point eventually. I agree with all of your statements. I think that once I get to the point you're at, that's when OverEmployed becomes a real possibility. I could do it before then, but that...
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    Pregnancy Announcements Everywhere! Life When Your Blue Pill Social Circle Starts Having Babies

    I have some more updates that are relevant to this thread. Two more of my collegiate peers announced pregnancies. Not married, but they had kids and then they are getting married. The more notable story is with a female coworker that I used to do gigs with. She was married for four years, and...
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    Aaron Clarey now says folks cannot afford to live on their own

    How have you felt about recharging your vehicle? I had some interest in an electric one. But, the main turnoff for me was that charging stations aren't common enough for me, when there's a gas station on every corner.
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    If/when I leave my current job, I aim to work a non government/DOD job. That way, I could give Overemployed a try and increase my salary further. At the moment, I think I need to stay put. I’m having a bit of trouble beating that $120K with 2 YOE.
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    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    This was a very insightful post.
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    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    I'm thinking that for me at least.. these are the statements that I resonate with. @SW15 you'll have to remind me but you were the one who was saying that a job should be a tool to generate the lifestyle that you want right? Can't quite remember who I heard that from. @BPH I totally agree that...
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    Is it true very few men in the world are "naturals" with women? It's like these guys, men, never had to learn "game", it was always second nature

    I think that you could argue by the time you add up the cost of all those Ubers, Instacarts/Walmart+ orders(because sometimes you need stuff that isn't near your local grocery), and any public transit, that it would be equal to or greater than the cost of a car note, even from one of those...
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    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    Oh, that was a while back, you were talking about how money is no good if you don’t have time to use it. Anything that can make money really.. I’d have to do some more research on other paths but the ones I have are in my field(programming)
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    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    I realize I just made a thread b!tching about my job lol but have you ever considered getting certified?
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    I mean, I really can’t complain. I work remote and I make over 6 figs, so I’ve got it pretty good
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that companies love Agile haha.
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    I hear management is a lot of work too, maybe @BackInTheGame78 can speak on that, I remember him making a post on it. Im wondering if much can be done. Probably best to not look for magic bullets. It can be argued that you can still have time for yourself doing 60-70 hours as long as your time...
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    I recognize that to make money, one needs to grind. Especially in tech. But how do you eventually break the cycle? Is that just life?
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    Aaron Clarey now says folks cannot afford to live on their own

    I'm guessing the $1K+ car notes fall under terrible money habits? :rofl:
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